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#4458928 - chaosascendingx
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(05/16/2013) [-]
It seems whenever I get too happy over someone
I beat myself up for it
I think its to not feel crushing disappointment later
i think its a good strategy
#4458958 to #4458928 - zekeon
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(05/16/2013) [-]
Works for me.
#4458955 to #4458928 - theblondefetus
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(05/16/2013) [-]
It's not a good strategy. It's a mental disorder
#4458962 to #4458955 - chaosascendingx
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(05/16/2013) [-]
bullshit
#4458998 to #4458962 - theblondefetus
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(05/16/2013) [-]
Well then give me an example of it. When was the last time you felt that way about someone?
#4459012 to #4458998 - chaosascendingx
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(05/16/2013) [-]
maybe a half hour ago?
#4459035 to #4459012 - theblondefetus
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(05/16/2013) [-]
Well elaborate on that. What is your relationship with the person? What led up to you beating yourself up about it?
#4459073 to #4459035 - chaosascendingx
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(05/16/2013) [-]
a friend that i thought of a lot
Just talking to them and being a bit too happy about it
#4459141 to #4459073 - theblondefetus
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(05/16/2013) [-]
Like a friend who you want to date or just a friend?

I think I'm familiar with the feeling. With me it's usually with someone I start to care about. It starts off good, then I realize I enjoy talking to whoever it is, at which point I feel stupid for liking them because they probably don't really give a damn about me. So I tell myself that we won't get close since I've already made up my mind that they wouldn't want to
#4459156 to #4459141 - chaosascendingx
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(05/16/2013) [-]
a friend i would want to date

and yeah that sounds like me
#4459210 to #4459156 - theblondefetus
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(05/16/2013) [-]
It's odd how quickly I can pick out this kind of thing now that I've noticed it in myself

If you do feel the same way I do about shit like this, it might be a fear of intimacy. That's why I've narrowed my problem down to.

www.psychalive.org/2011/11/fear-of-intimacy/
Read some of this if you want, it's a pretty good article on it
#4459260 to #4459210 - chaosascendingx
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(05/16/2013) [-]
thanks that article was very helpful actually..
#4459294 to #4459260 - theblondefetus
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(05/16/2013) [-]
I'm glad, that's what I was going for   
   
The standard "I'm here if you want to talk" applies here
I'm glad, that's what I was going for

The standard "I'm here if you want to talk" applies here
#4458935 to #4458928 - dustypengwin
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(05/16/2013) [-]
Do you still feel the crushing disappointment?
#4458967 to #4458935 - chaosascendingx
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(05/16/2013) [-]
no