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#87774 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
I'm 19. Just found out my gf is pregnant. What in the name of fuck do I do? My parents are extreme christians and my girl comes from a muslim family. We've been dating for 4 years and they don't even know about her.
User avatar #87848 to #87774 - adrilazzaro (07/31/2013) [-]
Don't be a fucking retard and abort it, DO NOT RUIN YOUR LIFE DAMMIT
#87813 to #87774 - anon (07/31/2013) [-]
What sort of contraceptive were you using? As your parents, they should be supportive and shouldn't let their religion get in the way of that. If it does, then I'm sorry, but they're not very good parents. If you don't want the baby, either abortion or or put the baby up for adoption. Again, if they let their religion get involved then they're not good parents. Try and rake in as much money to support both your girlfriend and upcoming baby if you decide to keep it.
User avatar #87776 to #87774 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
Come in the house with the girl and say hi mom here's 3 of us, might take a few seconds for her brain to comprehend the info but it will settle in. Now for real, explain to your parents about the situation and tell you parents you love her (even if you don't do it, christians dig anything thats connected to love). And she'll have to find a way to explain it to her family.
#87778 to #87776 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
I know her family well. They already know and they're pissed but they're standing next to their daughter no matter what she decides to do.
Also, I don't think your suggestion will work with my parents. You have no idea how insanely religious they are. "Harry Potter is the devil" religious.
User avatar #87779 to #87778 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
How old were they when they had you?
#87780 to #87779 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
Early 30s
User avatar #87781 to #87780 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
Well, explain to them that these things happen and that you're old enough to care about the child ( Are you going to a college or working or just kickin' back and relaxin? ).
#87783 to #87781 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
Im honestly kind of scared that they're going to kick me out
#87782 to #87781 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
Going to school and I have two jobs.
User avatar #87784 to #87782 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
2 jobs plus a school? Well done man... well done.... Well are they lovable and caring parents or some strict uptight people ? Extreme christians can still be lovable and understanding people.
#87785 to #87784 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
They're hate-filled idiots. Anti-gay rallies, hate other religions. The fact that my girl is from a muslim family is enough for them to hate her.
User avatar #87786 to #87785 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
Yea even if it they come to terms with the religion thing, its gonna be a real fucker trying to decide which religion will the child be under. Anyhow how long is your girlfriend pregnant?
#87790 to #87786 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
The baby is going to be raised without any religious affiliation. My gf isn't that religious and I'm still trying to find one that works for me so for now Im agnostic.
#87787 to #87786 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
Just about 2 months.
User avatar #87788 to #87787 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
Is abortion considered?
#87791 to #87788 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
We've talked about it. Neither of us really want to.
#87809 to #87791 - anon (07/31/2013) [-]
Have a kid instead and ruin your life then you stupid fuck
User avatar #87792 to #87791 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
Okay, here's my advice, man the fuck up gather them fertille balls and come to your parents with the news if they kick you out im sure you have some friends you could crash with for a brief time because your parents will most likely reconsider the whole thing and actually be thrilled and excited about getting a grandchild after all the anger goes out... Just out of curiosity where are you from?
#87794 to #87792 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
Thank you for your help btw bro. I do have friends I could stay with as well as my gf. Living in a house with an entire family who are insanely religious makes a person feel alone sometimes even if they have good friends and a good gf. I have 3 siblings who are also extremely religious.
User avatar #87796 to #87794 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
Anytime dude, thats why i'm here. You can feel free to return the favor by helping out some people in your daily life who are struggling with things they cannot resolve.. so just offer them an advice ^^
#87797 to #87796 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
I must be off my friend. Im going to tell them today or tomorrow. I actually have an FJ account just didn't feel like putting this all out there. I'll let ya know how it goes.
User avatar #87798 to #87797 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
I'm looking forward to your update, feel free to PM me in private if you need more help and tell me what happened ^^.
#87793 to #87792 - anon (07/30/2013) [-]
Not really comfortable saying. Let's just say the North/East US/Canada
User avatar #87795 to #87793 - lukagamer (07/30/2013) [-]
Ah.. the place where religion is looked hard upon...... Well you gotta face the fact that there is no actual thing of doing in this situation that would feel comfortable. You can only try making it as less painful as possible.
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