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#43157 - avengingmoose (12/15/2012) [-]
Be 16
Need some advice on a girl.
Been talking for quite a while, really start to like her a lot
At a party, we make out, then she decides to tell me that she 'really can't do with a relationship right now' but that she likes me.
Deal with the whole idea that we're not gonna be together, get over her fairly quickly
Next weekend, at different parties, she calls me up, tells me that she's been thinking about me all week, really likes me, but still not ready for a relationship
She suggests 'friends with benefits' idea
Not complaining
Carry on talking, couple of days later I'm happy to have anything with her at all, probably best looking girl who's ever shown an interest in me, she's (8/10)
Texts me on the monday after (she called on the friday) saying she acctually can't be dealing with any sort of relationship afterall, asks to just be friends
Two weeks later, I still can't stop thinking about her.
What do I do?
User avatar #43258 to #43157 - smashingprodigy (12/15/2012) [-]
If she asked to be friends, give her just that. You mentioned in another post that she had a relationship that ended badly. Make her place her confidence in you by hanging out with her and just being there for her. When you feel you are at a good point, tell her that you've been thinking about her a lot and that she should give you a chance. Every experience is a new one.
User avatar #43195 to #43157 - imnotkickthecat (12/15/2012) [-]
give her the d
User avatar #43185 to #43157 - gggman (12/15/2012) [-]
come on man, you gotta talk to her more, tell her she wouldn't have anything to worry about. Convince her she can trust you or you're not gonna get anywhere.
User avatar #43163 to #43157 - marinepenguin (12/15/2012) [-]
Did you ever ask why she didn't want a relationship?
#43165 to #43163 - avengingmoose (12/15/2012) [-]
said she has commitment issues or some shit, heard her last relationship ended badly
User avatar #43171 to #43165 - thisisspartah (12/15/2012) [-]
say something like 'forget the past look to the future,and ill be there to help'
User avatar #43169 to #43165 - marinepenguin (12/15/2012) [-]
Then maybe you could help her get over it. Talk it out with her if she's willing. Then you'll have proven you're willing to listen, and help with her issues. And then nothing would hold you back.
User avatar #43159 to #43157 - foaly (12/15/2012) [-]
Chill with her some more and if she still says she's not ready for a relationship then she might just want the D.
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