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#38376 - BoSchittButler
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(11/21/2012) [-]
so fj, i have a slight girl-confidence problem.

lets set the bar here, first. i can talk to girls. not to sound like an inconsiderate douche, im just trying to get that across. i can flirt with girls all the damn day. im just saying this so that shitstorm of "you just gotta know how to talk to them" starts.
there was this girl, i met her in algebra class last year during my junior year of highschool. she sat next to me, we talked quite a bit, but i never really considered dating her. junior year came and went, and we kinda quit talking...until she took up a summer job at a local chilies restaurant. i saw her working and pulled her over to chat. long story short, things hit off. we texted constantly, until one day i built the courage and confidence to ask her out for a movie. she did not seem enthusiastic of the idea and pulled the "friend" card on me. needless to say, i was herartbroken. eventually i moved on, and tried to hop back on my feet and get back in the game.

that was summer. fast forward to now. i found this cute country chick that seems to click with me pretty well, but my recent rejection from that chilies chick took a toll on my confidence on asking girls out again... i didnt realize until today that im afraid to ask out a girl again due to the fear of rejection..... what do?

#38390 to #38376 - smashingprodigy
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(11/21/2012) [-]
It's obvious that all girls are different (except the girls who say they're different from other girls). You cannot expect every girl that you meet, including the country girl, to reject you upon asking her out. Every new girl is a clean slate.
#38387 to #38376 - ratboii
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(11/21/2012) [-]
Grow some balls.

Who gives a fuck? The chick didn't like you big woop. Go ask this one out and if she doesn't want to go out with you then she's loosing out on something.

Listen, there's other girls that want you. You just don't see them.