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User avatar #37746 - JustForTheLulz (11/18/2012) [-]
Shit a brick and fuck me with it. I'm sitting here wishing that I could find someone to be with, yet at the same time rejecting this girl who has been asking me out for a year on the basis that I'm "nice and caring" because I just, for whatever reason, don't feel attracted to her.

I don't know if I'm a dick or just stupid.
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User avatar #37800 to #37746 - BoSchittButler (11/18/2012) [-]
you not a dick, but the fact that you actually are taking her into consideration means SOMETHING... whoo knows, you could give it a shot, and break up if it dont work. thats what relationships are,to find that person that is right for you. if thats not the case, then move on. its not like ya'll will get married or anything!!
User avatar #37836 to #37800 - JustForTheLulz (11/18/2012) [-]
I've taken the idea into consideration, but I feel like if I'm going to get into a relationship with someone, I should at least feel like the relationship is going to go somewhere, even if it doesn't in reality. I don't get that feeling with this. It feels very temporary, and I just don't have strong feelings for this girl. What's killing me is the fact that she's said she's interested in me because I'm a nice person. Most people would love to hear that, right? And normally I would too, but for some reason I just don't feel anything towards her.
User avatar #37850 to #37836 - BoSchittButler (11/18/2012) [-]
that makes sense. if you dont feel anything towards her, and you feel like it would be a stale relationship, then dont go for it. no ones pressuring this on you, its not like anyone else has control over what you do. because in the end, you have the final say so. just keep in mind, you will never know what you have until its gone.
#37757 to #37746 - chubbylittlemonkey (11/18/2012) [-]
out of 10, what is she? If you don't like her, at least she's hot.
User avatar #37760 to #37757 - JustForTheLulz (11/18/2012) [-]
Wait, what?
#37762 to #37760 - chubbylittlemonkey (11/18/2012) [-]
how hot is she. rate her attractiveness out of 10.
User avatar #37765 to #37762 - JustForTheLulz (11/18/2012) [-]
I don't know. I mean, she isn't unattractive, but I couldn't truthfully tell her I think she's beautiful, and that's like one of my stupid little requirements for being interested in a girl.

Why does it matter if she's hot or not?
#37773 to #37765 - chubbylittlemonkey (11/18/2012) [-]
Because you don't like her, so you can just give her a shot of she's really hot. If you like her, then it doesn't really matter how she looks.
User avatar #37778 to #37773 - JustForTheLulz (11/18/2012) [-]
I don't know why, but I can't do that. I could never date a girl just because she's hot or because I thought I could get some sex or whatever. This girl isn't bad looking, but when I think of the way she thinks, her interests, her sense of humor, even the way she texts, I just think, "meh."

I don't know what's wrong with me, but this is probably why I haven't, nor will I have a relationship with someone. I'm sounding like a massive faggot, but I'm being honest here.
#37780 to #37778 - chubbylittlemonkey (11/18/2012) [-]
You don't sound like a faggot. You're just waiting for the right one. I say, good luck on your conquest. By the way you're neither a dick or stupid. Keep rejecting her and she'll get the hint.
User avatar #37784 to #37780 - JustForTheLulz (11/18/2012) [-]
I don't see how I have the luxury of waiting for the right one. You're talking to someone who has never hung out with a girl his own age outside of school before, ever. I know I should be taking anything I can get, but I can't bring myself to do that. I take relationships way too seriously, but it's like this shit is hardwired into my brain. My friends spend all day checking out girls around school, then there's me, who needs a connection to even go to a movie. I think someone stole my man card at birth.
#37816 to #37784 - chubbylittlemonkey (11/18/2012) [-]
No. You're good husband material, keep it up. Just because you don't go around fucking everything that moves doesn't mean that your manhood is compromised, like I said, you're just waiting for the right one. Sorry for the late reply, go get 'em tiger.
#37754 to #37746 - redpandas (11/18/2012) [-]
I was in the same situation once, don't sweat it if you dont like her you dont like her.
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