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User avatar #37414 - cbobrow (11/16/2012) [-]
Alright guys, I want to know what you all think. I was, and still am, in love with a girl. Her and I were doing everything a couple would do (i.e cuddling, hand-holding) for around 6 months but never actually offically dating (Not keen on labels.), taking things fairly slowly. I had known her since I was in 4th grade and have pretty much known there was something special about her ever since, and around three months ago she cut off whatever we were doing. Since then I have fallen into a severe depression and have contemplated suicide more times than I can count. I've been putting on a face to my friends and family that everything is A okay and I'm sick of it. Do any of you have any ideas on how I could get her back? Or should I just end things?
#37548 to #37414 - hannahearts (11/17/2012) [-]
I've been where you are, you have to try. Fight for her. If you talk to her, she'll probably listen.
However, don't let her become the only thing you're fighting for. It's not worth contemplating suicide, in time it will heal, whether you work it out with her or not. There are other things in life, hold on to that.
Don;t give up on her, but don't give up on yourself.
User avatar #37577 to #37548 - cbobrow (11/17/2012) [-]
Honestly it's kinda already at that point... My home life is in shambles, I can't truthfully say there is anyone I actually enjoy spending time with. My life has literally been one stab in the gut after another for years upon years. I'm just barely on the not doing side of actually killing myself.
User avatar #37448 to #37414 - smashingprodigy (11/16/2012) [-]
I have to agree with what Lulz said in his last post. If you really love her, don't give up on her without a fight. Let her know how you feel.

Do not end things. Things get better, but you have to give it time.
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User avatar #37421 to #37414 - awesomenessdefined (11/16/2012) [-]
Grow a spine.
Boo hoo a girl broke up with me, whatever shall I do?
User avatar #37423 to #37421 - cbobrow (11/16/2012) [-]
Look I know how you're thinking and I know what I'm doing isnt exactly fantastic but some of these things really damage one's lifestyle. So if you're going to go on advice board then maybe you should expect these kinds of posts. It isn't always as cut and dried as I would like it to be, I can't just be done with it and move on. God knows I would love it to be that simple but it isnt. It just isnt. I've tried to change that but to no avail. In conclusion, I don't really feel like hearing more sarcastic comments about this subject, so instead hows about you just ignore posts you feel aren't worth your time and move on to the next one.
User avatar #37426 to #37423 - awesomenessdefined (11/16/2012) [-]
I'd say it was worth my time. And, again, grow a spine.
User avatar #37428 to #37426 - JustForTheLulz (11/16/2012) [-]
Stop being such a cunt.
User avatar #37433 to #37428 - awesomenessdefined (11/16/2012) [-]
You stop being a cunt
User avatar #37436 to #37433 - JustForTheLulz (11/16/2012) [-]
I'm not the one trying to feel good about myself by kicking people when they're down over the internet. Go be a dick somewhere else, no one here thinks you're clever.
User avatar #37442 to #37436 - awesomenessdefined (11/16/2012) [-]
I'm not the one here who needs to grow a spine. Go be a dick somewhere else, no one here thinks you're clever.
User avatar #37443 to #37442 - JustForTheLulz (11/16/2012) [-]
You think you "have a spine" because you can act tough on the internet? Are you just desperate for some attention right now? Either way, you failed at turning my statement around pretty badly. Stop being a faggot or get out.
User avatar #37521 to #37443 - awesomenessdefined (11/16/2012) [-]
If this is acting tough for you, yeah, you need to grow a spine. I am sick and tired of you little girls thinking you have the power to get me to stop. And I will keep going until atleast one of you realizes you need to grow up. It's for your own good.
User avatar #37523 to #37521 - JustForTheLulz (11/16/2012) [-]
I'm clearly standing up to you, you little dickfart. No one here is intimidated by your stupid shit. We all just think you're obnoxious and none of us want you on our board if you're going to act this way. Get your shit together and knock off the "I'm trying to toughen you up" act, because that's a bullshit excuse to act like a dick. If you don't want to do that, the offer to get out still stands.
User avatar #37526 to #37523 - awesomenessdefined (11/16/2012) [-]
Well too fucking bad. Standing up to me isn't a big deal because you're on the internet, and I'm not trying to act tough, I'm trying to get you to get panties out of a bunch and man the fuck up. Don't give me the, Oh I'm not intimidated excuse, because it's not even about intimidating you. So, once again, grow the fuck up.
User avatar #37527 to #37526 - JustForTheLulz (11/16/2012) [-]
You're the one who needs to grow the fuck up. Your name is "awesomenessdefined", you say things just to get a reaction out of people, then play the "I'm innocent and I'm just trying to help using unorthodox methods" card. Stop failing to troll on the internet and do something halfway decent with your life.
User avatar #37528 to #37527 - awesomenessdefined (11/16/2012) [-]
That's it let the anger fester. And then let it all out.
User avatar #37529 to #37528 - JustForTheLulz (11/16/2012) [-]
I'm not angry you stupid neckbeard. I'm trying to get you to understand that you're trolling attempts are failing, and that not a single person on this board sees you as anything more than a minor annoyance as a result of your actions.
User avatar #37532 to #37529 - awesomenessdefined (11/16/2012) [-]
And you just girled down again. God, I'd hate to be the guy who has to break bad news to you.
Oh, and as if Justforthelulz is a good name. Fucking kid.
User avatar #37536 to #37532 - JustForTheLulz (11/17/2012) [-]
My mistake, I thought maybe if I attempted to reason with you you'd realize that you're acting like a child and stop. But of course that didn't work. You're a wannabe troll, desperate for attention because you lack any real social skills, and thus do not leave the sanctuary of your bedroom except when you need a refill of mountain dew and a new bag of Doritos. Fuck off asshole, I'm done humoring you.
User avatar #37537 to #37536 - awesomenessdefined (11/17/2012) [-]
Oh please, I've been trying to get you to learn the error of your ways for the last ten comments, what makes you think you could change me with one. And since you won't figure it out on your own, I'm not trolling you, and you are dangerously unprepared for life. Now, I could be a little immature prick and say you're a 14 year old with an inferiority complex and some kind of disposition where you make opinions on shit you have no idea about, or that you're an underdeveloped 30 year old who never had a connection with anyone outside of your basement, but that would bring me down to your wussy level. So just grow up.
User avatar #37538 to #37537 - JustForTheLulz (11/17/2012) [-]
You took two shots at trying to identify me and fucked both of them up. Good job, you're proving again and again how awful you are at this. I've been stringing you along this entire time. Look how weak every single one of your comebacks are. You just try and copy my response and use it against me, and it hasn't worked once. You're the one that's unprepared for life. Hell, you weren't even prepared for this internet argument.

I'll say it one last time. Fuck off, asshole.
User avatar #37544 to #37538 - awesomenessdefined (11/17/2012) [-]
You know, you've said you were done, what, 4 times before. I doubt you have the balls to back out.
User avatar #37542 to #37538 - awesomenessdefined (11/17/2012) [-]
Can't reply to that last one, to many comments and all. But oh the delicious irony, I mean, just, wow.
User avatar #37543 to #37542 - JustForTheLulz (11/17/2012) [-]

Also, I think it's safe to say that you've run out of comebacks, although you never really did have any in the first place. I'm getting off now. Have a good life. If you respond to this, don't expect a reply. If you're as desperate for the last word as I think you are, you probably will respond anyway. Sorry if I hurt your feelings.
User avatar #37540 to #37538 - awesomenessdefined (11/17/2012) [-]
Little man trying to act big, nice. No, you weren't right about me either, and you never will be. Stringing you along this entire time, please, you genuinely have either no idea what that means, or just don't know how to interpret things. You've lost this, kid. Your comebacks were just insults, and not a single one ever went beyond what a 14 year old says to someone to try and intimidate them. Now, I've been trying to help you, I really have, but you just don't show any signs of improvement. But hey, I'm living, rent-free, in your head. And that's good enough for me.
User avatar #37541 to #37540 - JustForTheLulz (11/17/2012) [-]
Look at you. Desperate for the last word, trying to prove to only yourself at this point that you've "won" this and are coming out with even a shred of dignity left on this board. You've shown how much of a pussy you really are by thumbing down all my comments when you noticed that someone +1'd them. How can you tell others to man up and grow up when you care about thumbs? Just stop. I'm done roasting you.
User avatar #37415 to #37414 - drimsical (11/16/2012) [-]
why'd she break it off?
User avatar #37417 to #37415 - cbobrow (11/16/2012) [-]
The reason she gave me was that she couldn't juggle coming to a new school (my school) and sports and all the other extra curricular activities she does and be with me. I honestly didn't buy it but I didnt want to wedge her and I apart so I just accepted it. I feel like it was me who messed it up...
User avatar #37439 to #37417 - drimsical (11/16/2012) [-]
i had a similar situation myself. as in dumped with no plausible reason except for thats just how it is, i feel like doing other things. over time ive come to accept that but when it happened it tore me apart. it gets easier. from the sounds of things it a first love type issue. thats always hard to. but dont end it all. thats just fucking stupid. in time you'll realise that you leaned on that relationship because it was habitual, convenient, and it felt right. sounds pretty insensitive but thats what happens when you fall in love and get into a relationship. the loves still there, but these things all make it harder when it ends. you'll realise that there's far more for you to experience. sounds like bullshit right now but i promise that its the truth. for now you're going to be in hell. but when you're going through hell, keep going. it will get easier. just hang in.
and if she doesnt come back it wasnt meant to be. things have a way of sorting themselves out
User avatar #37430 to #37417 - JustForTheLulz (11/16/2012) [-]
Sorry about that deleted comment, I asked the same question Drim asked. You should tell her that you really care about her and that you'd be willing to try and make it work. Let her know you'd be understanding and wouldn't expect her to take time away from her activities, and that any amount of time you get to spend with her is worthwhile. Don't lay it on wicked thick though.
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