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#37353 - elkhemist (11/15/2012) [-]
how can I stop the feeling that every time I try to do something new, I will always fail at it?
Because like, I've never been the most adventurous of people. I have been trying to do stuff, but its hard...
And then, there's the fact that I've never had a girlfriend. Before you think this is a beta thread, I'd just like to say that I am getting there. I've got a first date tomorrow. This is the first time I've ever done anything like this. But, we were supposed to go see Sinister last week, but she was ill, so we were gonna go see it tomorrow instead. I just checked the cinema timetables. It isnt showing any more. I cant get in contact with her to tell her, so now my head is saying that I shouldn't have tried to do this in the first place because I'm just gonna fail hard...
Can anyone help me feel more confident with myself?
User avatar #37356 to #37353 - medewu ONLINE (11/15/2012) [-]
Look man, Im not gonna lie its hard to get past that feeling of being down all the time but you have to struggle through, I came from the same point Ya I've never dated a chick either. Thing is it scares me really so i always put my self down setting limitations to what I can and can't do. try your best to get in contact with her and all let her know what happened but say lets still go see a movie or do something, you need to believe in yourself, Think of it like this SHE wants to be with you, to go to a movie with you, SHE wants to spend her time with you, In life you will always fall, but its about how we get back up and keep trying that makes it better.

TL;DR Find the Strength to believe in yourself, Keep your hopes up high and your head down low man
#37363 to #37356 - elkhemist (11/15/2012) [-]
Dude, you just made me realise just how much being depressed isnt just an emotion. It changes how I think...
When we were postponing our date, I said to myself exactly what you just said. That she actually wants to be with me. As long as I keep that in my head, I know that it will be alright. Because I've waited long enough for this. I can wait a little longer knowing that she wants to do this too...
I've started cheering up a little since I posted the original post, and I remembered that she usually goes out with her girl friends on Thursdays, so she wouldnt be able to see my texts anyway....
Its hard to think when I'm being paranoid...
User avatar #37364 to #37363 - medewu ONLINE (11/15/2012) [-]
it is hard to think rationally while paranoid. it seems like the mind just loves to remind you of everything that could go wrong, and plays it through your head, Depression Loves to fuck with us, why cause it finds it fun... never let life get you down man, Keep looking forward and remember to Smile, Smile, Smile
#37367 to #37364 - elkhemist (11/15/2012) [-]
ahah. :D
but yeah. I will try to focus on the good stuff. Because there is a lot of good stuff, when you look for it.

User avatar #37368 to #37367 - medewu ONLINE (11/15/2012) [-]
/)*(\ BROHOOF no problem man!
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