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#37283 - natanhiel
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(11/15/2012) [-]
I pushed a girl away from me slowly lately because I thought she disliked me, and it turns out she liked me.

Probably the 7th time I've made this mistake in my life now.

Fuck, I need to get better at reading signs 'n' shit.
#37329 to #37283 - smashingprodigy
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(11/15/2012) [-]
Is it too late now? You can't turn this around?

And by the way, every girl is different, so those signs you're getting might differ.
#37331 to #37329 - natanhiel
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(11/15/2012) [-]
Her best friend, who is also a close friend of mine, called me a tool this morning because she likes me.
#37334 to #37331 - smashingprodigy
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(11/15/2012) [-]
Pardon me if I'm being a little slow, but how is that related to her liking you? Do you not like her back, or have you ruined your chance with her? :/ I don't understand.
#37336 to #37334 - natanhiel
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(11/15/2012) [-]
I've ruined my chance. She thinks I'm just some cold-hearted jackass now.
#37337 to #37336 - smashingprodigy
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(11/15/2012) [-]
Well, what exactly did you do if you don't mind me asking? I know you thought she disliked you, but you weren't exactly a jerk, right?
#37338 to #37337 - natanhiel
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(11/15/2012) [-]
No, I just stopped responding when she tried to get close to me all the time. She would come and say hello, and then not respond if I tried to continue conversation and sit there.
#37339 to #37338 - smashingprodigy
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(11/15/2012) [-]
Well, even if she did dislike you, that seems a little cold-hearted to me, but I'm sure there's a way to recover from it. You can't just apologize to her and talk it out with her?
#37340 to #37339 - natanhiel
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(11/15/2012) [-]
Even if I did, she'll just do what she usually does. It's hard to even get a hello out of her.
#37341 to #37340 - smashingprodigy
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(11/15/2012) [-]
What about talking to that close friend of yours? Maybe she can help in some way if she's willing to listen. Just explain everything. How were you sure that this girl disliked you?
#37343 to #37341 - natanhiel
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(11/15/2012) [-]
The thing where she would initiate conversation, then wouldn't continue it past
"Hey"
Oh, hey.
"How are you?"
I'm fine, how're you?

Then she would just sit there with her legs crossed looking around.
#37345 to #37343 - smashingprodigy
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(11/15/2012) [-]
I'm sorry. I don't really know how you would get through to her. Like I said, maybe give it some time. If you have her on any social networking site as a friend or if you have her email, write a message to her or give her a note explaining your mistakes. Since she doesn't want any direct contact for now, she should be more willing to read a letter when she doesn't have to give you a direct response (or any response at all). Other than that, I'm not too sure. I hope that helps somehow.
#37324 to #37283 - beatmasterz
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(11/15/2012) [-]
What do you mean pushed away?
#37325 to #37324 - natanhiel
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(11/15/2012) [-]
I kept her out of my life, because I thought she disliked me. I didn't involve her in anything.
#37328 to #37325 - beatmasterz
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(11/15/2012) [-]
But if she liked you, she would've tried to get your attention, right? And I assume she did that, and I think a person who disliked you wouldn't do that.
#37332 to #37328 - natanhiel
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(11/15/2012) [-]
She did try to get my attention, but she quickly turned quiet again and started looking everywhere but me. I assumed she was just being a bitch.
#37342 to #37332 - beatmasterz
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(11/15/2012) [-]
That's sad. I suggest you tell her you had the wrong idea of her and don't have any hostile feelings towards her.

optionally ask if she wants to go see a movie or something.