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#21400 - anon (08/19/2012) [-]
Ok, here goes..

I have this friend, who was a girl. Shes 17, I'm 18.
We have been friends for a few years. Last year we got very close, and started dating. I liked her so much, and i'm pretty sure she liked me, as she was the one who hinted that i should ask her out.

We dated for about a month and a half. Texted everyday, met up, saw movies, all that crap.. Then one day, we were at the park, and she had to go, because her mum came to pick her up. A few hours later, she texts me, saying that we cant date anymore, her parents dont want her dating, shes really sorry, she doesnt want to ruin her relationship with her family even further blah blah...

Hurt, but ok, if its for your family, then i can accept that.. So we stayed friends.. I still really liked her even though she did that. So we continued texting, and talking and stuff..

Then not too long ago, we started getting close again.. I said i wish we could go out again, and she said she wanted it too, but couldnt. Then suddenly about a month ago, she got a new boyfriend, didnt even tell me, but didnt exactly hide it either.. (facebook)

I only found out a few days ago, and shes been away on holiday the past month, and is coming back tomorrow.

I feel completly fucked over by her, and have no idea what to do. Do i have enough reasons to hate her, because for this i want to, but I still feel attracted towards her.
Shes the first girl iv ever dated, and the first one iv ever liked.

What the hell should i do?
(Sorry for the long read)
User avatar #21401 to #21400 - bollocksonabus (08/19/2012) [-]
Confront her. It's total bullshit what she's doing, and she's fucking you over. She'll either give you some see through excuse or be hostile, because she didn't actually want you back, and just wanted out. Either way I feel for you bro...
#21403 to #21401 - anon (08/19/2012) [-]
Hmm thanks.. I just dont why she would do something like this.. We've always been quite honest and open with each other, and then she does this..
User avatar #21404 to #21403 - bollocksonabus (08/19/2012) [-]
Mate, girls are confusing, bewildering creatures. One minuite they love you, the next they are stabbing you with a kitchen knife smeared with marzipan (that's not even a joke, I have scars to prove it). I think either she's been leading you on for a long time, the relationship part I mean, or she just wanted out for some reason, and then decided her new bf is somehow way better in every way than you. You got unlucky, best bet is to either confront her for some form of closure, or go your seperate ways.
#21406 to #21404 - anon (08/19/2012) [-]
Dayumm.. Thing is, if i do try to talk to her, i feel like i'll have an uncontrolable need to tell her to go burn in the deepest dungeons of hell...
But im not that kind of guy, and i wouldnt feel comfortable directly asking her about it.
No doubt she will try to talk to me after she returns, so would it be best to ignore her, or act cold towards her..? I want to make her feel as bad as possible
User avatar #21416 to #21406 - bollocksonabus (08/20/2012) [-]
If you want to hurt her, show her what she's missing. Exploit all your strong points and flaunt them. And get with another girl. I'd never do this because I have huge morals towards women, but Make her jelous. Otherwise, ignore her and act really cold, and she'll feel like shit
#21446 to #21416 - anon (08/20/2012) [-]
Im not normaly a person that would do something like this, im calm and nice.. But i really cant end this with me being her little "friend bitch" .. Shes really fucked this up, and im really pissed because i thought she likes me.. So ill do what i can.
Also, getting with another girl, would it be more effective if its a girl she really hates?
User avatar #21448 to #21446 - bollocksonabus (08/20/2012) [-]
Good point. Do that. And you're right, you don't want to be pussywhipped
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