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User avatar #19783 - shadowtideranger (08/12/2012) [-]
Long story. Starting in middle school i began to become very interested in girls but whenever it came to interacting with one my mind would just shut down. but there was one girl i could interact with, i had known her long before i became interested in girls and was quite close friends with her but i never really thought of her that way. until i realised she was the only girl i was comfortable around. i began to crush on her very much. i liked her so much i would almost do anything for her (not that she commanded me or anything) i just wanted to do everything i could to make her happy, to make her laugh . i got to such a point where i was almost a pet to her i would fetch a ball get down on all fours and act generally goofy just for her attention (i even intentionally hurt myself in stupid ways to make her laugh (nothing seriously hurtful though). she never even took advantage of it either she would just laugh call me silly and hug me, and that's all it took to make me happy. over the next few years we continued to hang out and i continued to act stupid, but something changed. she began to date. I was so jealous and upset that she liked another guy but at the same time i knew i was to nervous to ask her out or make a move. but i wanted so badly. over the course of the last couple years in middle school she had multiple boyfriends always jumping from one to another while i stood by watching with extreme jealousy. when i finally got up the nerve to try and make my first move was Easter i had bought her i little toy chick-let and was totally ready to give it to her but i chickened out at the last second as she was with her current boyfriend for the entire day. so i decided i would make the move as soon as i found out she wasn't dating anyone. the day finally came around August when i found out she had gotten in a fight with her boyfriend and said she was dumping him. Continue in reply V
User avatar #19786 to #19783 - shadowtideranger (08/12/2012) [-]
I made my move i confessed my love for her and she was happy to find out. i was extatic. we dated for like a week until i was unexpectedly approached by her ex who asked if i was dating her which i quickly replied yes. he then went on to tell me that she had not infact broken up with him and that she was cheating on both of us. to which me and him reacted to both dump her. i was mad or felt that way because i thought i should. any-ways the years passed and we all went are own ways (me and her ex became friends) until high-school, when i had her in one of my classes along with her ex. it changed when she started passing me notes, (which i kept a secret from her ex), saying things like hey how are you and appolagizing for what had happened i replied its OK and I'm good and some time during this note passing my love for her was rekindled and i couldn't help but be pulled back to her side. same story as before i loved everything about her and she laughed and hugged me (still not taking advantage of me in any way). a relashonship continued as it did before and she was still dating other guys. it wasn't until out of the blue she messaged me saying she liked me and wanted to see me (at this point i was so happy that nothing else in the world mattered not even my shit life). i gladly accepted and was anticipating seeing her the next day. however when the next day came i was not ready my body froze and my mind shut down, i said absoulotly nothing the entire day. needless to say she was not impressed she tolled me she wanted to brake up that very day. i was heart broken, i had a second chance and i totally fucked it up. i stopped hanging out with her, (or anyone), became super depressed and considerer suicide (but i did not as i resolved never to kill myself a long time ago). till this day I've never really gotten over her and I'm still fairly antisocial and depressed. Continue V
User avatar #19787 to #19786 - shadowtideranger (08/12/2012) [-]
to the final outcome. she eventually moved away and i haven't contacted her in a while. but she contacted e saying she's coming out for her birthday. i really want to say or do something but i don't know how. i still really like her.
#19791 to #19787 - chubbylittlemonkey (08/12/2012) [-]
She's coming out? So she's a lesbian? Sucks for you man I'm sorry.
User avatar #19802 to #19791 - shadowtideranger (08/12/2012) [-]
ahhhahaha no she coming to my are. what happend to advice man?
User avatar #19806 to #19803 - synystyr (08/12/2012) [-]
Sometimes being forward is a good thing. Maybe ask her if she wants to go out when she's in the area.
User avatar #19790 to #19787 - revorce (08/12/2012) [-]
Shorten up bro.
Too long didn't read.
#19784 to #19783 - anon (08/12/2012) [-]
**anonymous rolled a random image posted in comment #60 at rainbows! ** Tell her how you feel in with confidence, and she doesnt feel the same way just ask if you can be friends. Then proceed to become a badass and get the ladies. Things will work out for you. Stay positive.
User avatar #19788 to #19784 - shadowtideranger (08/12/2012) [-]
read the rest
User avatar #19841 to #19788 - invisiblepleasure (08/12/2012) [-]
Contact her more, try and hang out, how long is she staying? after she goes back you and her could meet somewhere and just ya know go see a film or talk or shop or whatever takes your fancy, don't get hurt or played man, I wish you the best of luck.
User avatar #19845 to #19841 - shadowtideranger (08/12/2012) [-]
ya but she lives in another province its not very easy to get together
User avatar #19846 to #19845 - invisiblepleasure (08/12/2012) [-]
Well you can still try, meet half way or something
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