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User avatar #19710 - synystyr (08/12/2012) [-]
So I'm on a landmine here.
Married, but I'm not happy. Wife is, and refuses to try counseling or trial separation or anything. I do care about her and I'm not straight up miserable, but I feel she's not the one for me( I don't think I'm the committing type). Further, I'm crazy over another girl, who I see 5 days a week at work, and she's started invading my dreams and waking thoughts, but I don't know if she likes me...
Thoughts? Advice?
#19818 to #19710 - bigralf (08/12/2012) [-]
whats causing you to be unhappy? theres more than just 1 person out there for everyone. figure out what is the cause of your unhappiness and then figure out what needs to be done to fix it
User avatar #19823 to #19818 - synystyr (08/12/2012) [-]
I don't think it's behavioral or anything, I think I realized (too late) that her personality isn't the type I want to be around all the time...
User avatar #19715 to #19710 - hybridboxll (08/12/2012) [-]
Do you have kids?
User avatar #19716 to #19715 - synystyr (08/12/2012) [-]
No, but the girl I'm falling for has a 4 y o and one in the oven with an abusive douche she's separating from
User avatar #19718 to #19716 - hybridboxll (08/12/2012) [-]
I think you should keep her on "standby" and see how her and your situations unfold. If she actually gets separated wait a little bit, don't jump on her straight away.

Try to fix things with your wife first; you must have married her for a reason... If she's still unwilling to cooperate and the girl from work gets her shit straight then go ahead and give it a try.

If your wife refuses to help you then there's no reason for you to be with her.
User avatar #19725 to #19718 - synystyr (08/12/2012) [-]
Thanks for the input. I don't have alot of go-to friends who I can talk to about this situation.
User avatar #19726 to #19725 - hybridboxll (08/12/2012) [-]
No problem, message me if you need anything else.
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