Latest users (3): babylien, enlightednatzie, raventhespy, anonymous(28).
Anonymous comments allowed.
#11501 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
>Liked girl since 2009
>She's 5 months pregnant
>She used to like me (despite us being shy around each other and hardly spoke in person)
>I never made a move
>We stopped talking as much
> Haven't physically seen her in over a year
> rarely speak over internet

Any advice on somehow getting back into her life? (pic unrelated)
User avatar #11504 to #11501 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
Ask her if she wants to do something.
#11509 to #11504 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
she'll be like "maybe", then log off. We rarely talk, so asking her to meet me would be pretty damn hard.

any moar advice?
User avatar #11510 to #11509 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
Is she using 'maybe' as an excuse? Does she really want to hang out with you?
#11511 to #11510 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
she did say to me that we should meet up some time, and I asked when, and she replied "soon"

but, that was in september last year, and I need to ask her about it in a way i'm not stalking her
User avatar #11513 to #11511 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
Damn that was a while ago. Is September also the last time you two spoke?
#11515 to #11513 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
we've had occasional "how's it going?" kind of chats, but it's nothing compared to when we both liked each other.

And it sounds pretty beta for me saying this, but I don't actually want her, I just want her as a friend, she's always been cool in my opinion... I dunno, I probably feel intimidated by her
User avatar #11516 to #11515 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
Alright but you never asked to do anything with her since September?
#11518 to #11516 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
I asked her once, and she never replied
User avatar #11519 to #11518 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
Then I don't think it's creepy if you ask if she wants to do something. When did you ask to do something?
#11520 to #11519 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
January, and since then i've spoken to her about 3 times, and they've never been long chats either.
User avatar #11521 to #11520 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
What did you ask to do? And Yeah it's been 7 months, I think it's pretty safe to ask again.
#11523 to #11521 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
"so, so you still want to meet up sometime?"
or something

and she never replied
User avatar #11524 to #11523 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
Via text or facebook? Because if you use facebook, you can see if she has seen the message or not.
#11528 to #11524 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
through FB.

But even so, she's pregnant and that's putting me off meeting her all together, in case I go batshit insane or something
User avatar #11529 to #11528 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
So she isn't currently in a relationship? I say just try to ask again, if it doesn't work, then I say cut your losses, sorry. She may even not want to hang out with you and is just saying 'maybe' as a way to not directly hurt your feelings. I'm not saying this is what is happening but it is possible. So try again one or two more times, then just stop. Good luck!
#11530 to #11529 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
oh, she is in one. Another reason why it'd be hard to meet up with her
User avatar #11531 to #11530 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
Ah, she may think you are trying to get with her.
#11533 to #11531 - anon (07/09/2012) [-]
yeah but it's a bit odd as to why she was the one who told me we should meet up
User avatar #11534 to #11533 - ascian (07/09/2012) [-]
In September right? That was before she got pregnant so she may have changed her mind about hanging out.
 Friends (0)