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#104041 - closothehomosexual
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#104096 to #104041 - HURLEYSURFERDUDE
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(11/22/2013) [-]
Okay I usually help people out with anything when I feel like I should.

I personally have no gay experience but i'll try my best.

To be honest long distance relationships have trouble and sometimes dont work. It's essential for a relationship to have some closeness or bonding face-to-face. Even people who are truly in love end up losing some affection after months of being apart.

If he really does love you then he wouldn't dare cheat on you with another guy. His first reaction would to be to decline this other guy's advances. Give him some trust, maybe talk to him about the whole "friend hitting on him" thing and see how he feels about it, I mean REALLY TALK. Not that "do you like it when he does it?" bullshit. Ask him if his friend means it, if he considers his friend and option how he feels about the whole long distance thing.

It's a harsh reality but if it isn't working then it isnt working. It's heartbreaking shattering, stupid, and terrible. But it's the way this bitch of a world works sometimes.

It seems like he can be trusted not to do anything. But people actions speak louder than words.

if this helps you not freak out at all, then good. If it made things worse....then..... well shit.
#104080 to #104041 - liftinginbritain
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(11/21/2013) [-]
how do feel about china relaxing the one child policy
#104095 to #104080 - HURLEYSURFERDUDE
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(11/22/2013) [-]
I cam back to this board to see what's up and saw this....... you make my insides warm you glorious bastard.
#104075 to #104074 - closothehomosexual
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#104072 to #104071 - iwasfrozentoday
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(11/21/2013) [-]
Shudnt u be sexting with ur homo friend
#104073 to #104072 - closothehomosexual
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#104060 to #104041 - Timmietim
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(11/21/2013) [-]
Backflip would help
#104063 to #104060 - closothehomosexual
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#104064 to #104063 - Timmietim
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(11/21/2013) [-]
fuk u didn't break ur neck?
#104050 to #104041 - filip
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(11/21/2013) [-]
Yes like MooseGnome said, communication is the key. You just really have to talk to him about your fears of you losing him.
#104048 to #104041 - dumerveil
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#104053 to #104048 - closothehomosexual
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#104047 to #104041 - MooseGnome
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(11/21/2013) [-]
If you can't trust him to not just simply pick the closest love over yours, then there's not much room for a relationship there. I know it's hard, but there's not much you can do. You have to trust him, and he fucks that up, it's his loss.

Communication tends to help situations like this. Have you made it clear to him that you're not comfortable with this?
#104052 to #104047 - closothehomosexual
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#104056 to #104052 - MooseGnome
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(11/21/2013) [-]
I know it sucks, but you really have no choice. He knows it's an issue and there's nothing else you can do. If it makes a difference, this isn't an uncommon problem in relationships and we all have to suffer with this shit.