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#216468 - anon
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(2 hours ago) [-]
i feel like shit. i fell with a girl that i never thought i would fall in love with. she was in my class.
shes definitly in the image of the girl that i want to be with both personalty and looks . im an anon fag, i have have never had a girl friend and shes the only person that i like enough to be willing to push my self to try and get to know her better.

she came to me once and tryed to get my information to keep contact after class, i i happaliy gave it to her. but i was let down because he didnt use it. she didnt give me hers so i was the one expecting her to contact me. i waited for ages. and nothing. i kept playing that moment in my head, thinking about what i said, did i say something wrong? did i make a mistake? maybe she changed her mind? i kept playing it in my head for ages.

this was all before i leared that she already have a boyried that shes with for like 3 years. after learning that fact i thought " well shes taken, and she didnt contact me so its probably for the best" thats me thinking that i will never see her again. and surprise surprise, shes in my class. not only that, she chose to sit down next to me.

i dont know if i should celebrate ,feel sad or to laugh. i now probably have to keep talking to her for the rest of the semeter and pretend that shes just a class mate to me. and every now and then, slap my face infront of a mirror to remind my self that shes taken.(this kind of class, people usualy pick a seat and never change it for the rest of the semester)

i felt like i betrayed my self. i always said to my self to never even think of looking at another man's woman. its just wrong. i feel like im betraying my own self. i feel like shit. but i cant help it.

ever time i tell me self " im fine, actually im not that into her" and than take one quick glance at her , my heart skips a beat.

not a good way to start a semeter.

just a bad day .
#216476 to #216468 - anon
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(2 hours ago) [-]
just to make it clear when i leared she was in my class that was a year after she asked for my contacts which was in a previous class.

im not even sure why im posting this.
#216464 - vegetawashere
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(4 hours ago) [-]
i'm having a really hard time finding a good college is there a place where i can ask about them? or do you know countries that have good law schools as well as good chance for employment?
#216461 - therealslimtwelve
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(5 hours ago) [-]
just made this account to upload a photo and then delete the account but it wont let me delete it
#216462 to #216461 - anon
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(5 hours ago) [-]
you're here forever
#216454 - helloyouarereadin
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(5 hours ago) [-]
I'm 17 and have been suffering with mental illness since I can remember, I want to try get help before I turn 18-any experience?
#216478 to #216454 - ferrettamer
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(1 hour ago) [-]
just go to a doctor or psychologist or something fam
#216460 to #216454 - lgninjaleetful
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(5 hours ago) [-]
You've been diagnosed professionally?
#216453 - sushininja
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(6 hours ago) [-]
How do I find college textbooks online for free? plz help I'm poor. Googling only leads to false links so if anyone has tips it's appreciated

One is for macroeconmics:
"Macroeconomics, 6th edition, Glenn Hubbard and Anthony O’Brien. Feel free to use the 4th or 5th editions if you wish."
The other is for math:
Calculus 8th Edition by James Stewart
It's a new book so I doubt anyone can find it but if you can lemme know
#216455 to #216453 - minutes
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(5 hours ago) [-]
If you use a VPN from your university you gain access to a lot of books and articles.
I couldn't find your books either and it's often the case that you don't find them, but you might find similar ones. Also, if they say you need the book, you usually don't
#216440 - cognosceteipsum
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(10 hours ago) [-]
Anyone here with bipolar disorder and a problematic relative that keeps on ruining them?
#216431 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(15 hours ago) [-]
I have -200 dollard for the next 12 days. Cant afford upcoming bills, or food.
See you in valhalla brothers!
#216456 to #216431 - deroderpderp
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(5 hours ago) [-]
Negative 200? Or just 200?
#216466 to #216456 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(2 hours ago) [-]
Negative 200 dollars good sir.
#216467 to #216466 - deroderpderp
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(2 hours ago) [-]
Do you live near a lake?
Pond?
Stream?
River?
#216469 to #216467 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(2 hours ago) [-]
20 dollar fishing licence.
cops here are already gunning for me and my family. they think i stole a TV ( long story, i didn't ) and if they catch me fishing without a permit i'm even more fucked.
#216470 to #216469 - deroderpderp
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(2 hours ago) [-]
Do you know how to purify water?
#216471 to #216470 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(2 hours ago) [-]
I'm fine on water. everything else if fucked tho.
#216472 to #216471 - deroderpderp
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(2 hours ago) [-]
How long since youve eaten?
#216473 to #216472 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(2 hours ago) [-]
yesterday. only thing i've eaten today was a handful of pretzels.
#216474 to #216473 - deroderpderp
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(2 hours ago) [-]
How long have you not paid your bills?
#216475 to #216474 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(2 hours ago) [-]
2 months give or take. gave them what i could but it adds up.
#216477 to #216475 - deroderpderp
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(1 hour ago) [-]
Have you tried cutting off all but the basics? A water and ramen diet, using minimal power, ect.
#216479 to #216477 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(1 hour ago) [-]
i can't afford ramen. -200 remember. all i got in the fridge is all i got.
#216437 to #216431 - focalanemo
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(11 hours ago) [-]
suck dick for money
#216451 to #216437 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(6 hours ago) [-]
The fuck you think i do now?
#216433 to #216431 - sugoi
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(12 hours ago) [-]
Get a job at mcdonalds u cn du eet
#216452 to #216433 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(6 hours ago) [-]
Not desperate enough to do that yet lol.
#216424 - imabser
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(22 hours ago) [-]
Did one of admins servers blow up or did a clean install of windows 10 erase the last 3 years of comments i made? and revert my avatar pic
#216423 - yourfriendbraum ONLINE
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(08/23/2016) [-]
What is the proper etiquette when calling back a job that's trying to offer an interview after calling multiple times over the last few days? Is it ok to call back everyday until you speak to someone?
#216434 to #216423 - sugoi
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(12 hours ago) [-]
Yes
#216422 - manofparody
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(08/22/2016) [-]
I've lost hope.

First, there's this:
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That will save a lot of typing.
Then I hear of all these people (including my brother who's baby mama is fucking crazy and is using him as a meal ticket) who go through the same shit, where the woman just flipped a light switch in themselves, and they immediately stop loving you and decide you're not better than the dirt they walk on.
I was with this girl for 3 years, and she loved me more than I have ever seen anyone love someone. This is not a hyperbole or exaggeration. I honestly never saw anyone love someone more.
We're over, I get that.. But now, my future is fucked. She's already dating another guy and I assume they're happy together, and they will be happy. She doesn't see this as a block for her. She loved me more than she ever loved anyone, and she doesn't give a shit.
But me.. I can't love anyone like that again. This isn't some emo "Oh I love her and I will always love her" shit. This is my understanding of how shit works. I gave everything into the relationship and I never saw us ending. Now, with how she flipped a light switch and everything turned off, I CANNOT get into another relationship like that ever again. I cannot invest myself, because of how EASILY and QUICKLY she just TURNED IT OFF.
And everyone is like "ohohohoho you need time to heal". This isn't that. I'm tired of people saying that. I don't give a shit about her, this is my understanding of how MY emotions work.
Now, any time I ever get with a woman, I will ALWAYS have that doubt, now. That doubt that she could do the same thing my ex did, and just flip a switch one day while we're madly in love, and sever me like I never mattered. That doubt will prevent me from loving someone like that, ever again.

And if not for that doubt, then it's the amount of crazy women out there in disguise. I always thought it was easy to see crazy women who did shit like that, and I always stayed away. That's why I fell in love with this girl, is because she was different (or so I thought). We never argued and we got along perfectly for 3 years.

There's no hope. Honestly, the only happy couples I see are the ones who broke so many good relationships because of shitty fixable reasons, and finally learned not to break up over petty dumb fucking shit (basically in their 40s), and even that's a fucking rarity to see any happy couples in their 40s+.

I need hope... I need to know someone who went through similar shit. Not the "I loved her more than I thought I'd love anyone" shit, but the shit where they KNEW there'd always be doubt in future relationships after that breakup, and still managed to fall in love stronger than ever.
Without that, there's no point for me.
#216457 to #216422 - minutes
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(5 hours ago) [-]
You seriously need to chill a bit. I've been in a quite similar situation. She also left me for no reason, never told me why (still don't know), she also bought a puppy like a day after we got together and we basically raised it together even though it was her dog
I know you don't want to hear it but time really fucking helps. You're not that different from anybody else, everyone, yes fucking everyone thinks they are different, everyone thinks the same way about their gf as well. "oh she will never cheat on me! she is not like that! oh she really loves me! no she will never leave unless i fuck up ofc!" nope. I thought all of that as well and here we fucking are right?
I won't lie, I still think about my ex sometimes and when I do it still hurts, but it got a lot better. Some people take very long to get over someone, but eventually we all do. If there is something that you can't change, no matter what you do, you can either deal with it or let it consume you. Your choice.
There is a lot more to life than having a gf. Experience the world, try to be a better person FOR YOURSELF not for that fucking bitch or for anyone else. Do stuff you always wanted to do, learn new things, find new friends, maybe even move to another place. Finding a job might be difficult for now but if you try hard and long enough you'll get one.

We're not in a movie where every ending is something special etc. It's over. You didn't get any explanation why, yea. It sucks I know. But so what? Now it's done and can't be changed anymore, so does it really matter why it happened? The past has already been written. I came up with a lot of reasons why and have found a pretty good explanation from social psychology and it didn't help me at all not even a single bit. Of course you feel like there will always be doubt, but that will go away as well. After you spend some years with a different person you will learn to trust again. It's not what you want to hear but it's the way it is.
#216427 to #216422 - corkyobject
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(18 hours ago) [-]
Love is a fickle and cruel thing it can bring you up from the darkest pit in your life or shove you into it. Love is different for everyone but it doesn't seem that she stopped loving you one day someone probably came along when you two were dating and she started to love them and started to pull away from you/love you less and less as time went on . It's hard to get over something like this, you can't just shut yourself off emotionally from the rest of the world especially to other women . I know you probably heard this a hundred times before but you need time to heal, don't shut yourself off from the world. Pick yourself off the ground, hang out with your friends and other people you care about, and just try to start again. I'm not saying that you need to immediately find someone new to love, just a friend, someone you can talk to who can help you get out of this slump. When things are starting to feel better then you try and look for someone else.
If nothing else, talk to your ex and ask why she ended it. Talking to her and figuring things out will help you in the long run.
#216432 to #216427 - manofparody
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(14 hours ago) [-]
She blocked me after I tried talking to her after 4 months of no contact.

All I did was ask her how she's been, and she blocked me.
I'm not going to get answers.