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User avatar #220618 - nfwar
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(1 hour ago) [-]
Long exposure to depression and lonelyness creates new mental disorders for me with time. I ended up not being able to erect and watching porn makes me want to hurt myself. Lately urge to do that is very tempting. I am afraid.

I need advice to alter this.
User avatar #220624 to #220618 - advicedude
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(44 minutes ago) [-]
Find hobbies go out more. Reconnect with family. Go to school. Find another job. Take antidepressants/canabis
User avatar #220636 to #220624 - cognosceteipsum
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(17 minutes ago) [-]
Cannabis for depression?
User avatar #220616 - savagechode
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(2 hours ago) [-]
Every dream has meaning they say.....I've had an extremely strange one that I couldn't find anything like on web...and dream/lucid dreamer know abouts wanna take a crack at it?
User avatar #220625 to #220616 - advicedude
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(44 minutes ago) [-]
Sure
User avatar #220617 to #220616 - dehumanizer
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(2 hours ago) [-]
>every dream has meaning

No, no it doesnt.
User avatar #220612 - rokkarokkaali
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(5 hours ago) [-]
I've had a stiff ass neck for a week now. What can I do to fix this? I've been like turning my head as far as possible to the sides for the momentary relief to this pain
User avatar #220626 to #220612 - advicedude
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(43 minutes ago) [-]
Sleep in someone else's bed. Also lay on your back or side, not your stomach.
#220613 to #220612 - MisguidedIdiot
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(3 hours ago) [-]
Get a better bed and pillow
User avatar #220595 - mondominiman
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(10 hours ago) [-]
If you leave your car door open and someone takes it out whose at fault?
User avatar #220610 to #220595 - rokkarokkaali
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(5 hours ago) [-]
Depends if your door had a sign that said "hit me"
#220598 to #220595 - anon id: cfa1fef5
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(10 hours ago) [-]
the woman that hit the car door
User avatar #220601 to #220598 - mondominiman
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(10 hours ago) [-]
Dat fukin cunt
#220586 - rokkai
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(11 hours ago) [-]
girl invited me over, i refused simply because i didn't want to.

i feel weird dude how gay is this
User avatar #220627 to #220586 - advicedude
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(42 minutes ago) [-]
Do it man. Ragrets
#220614 to #220586 - MisguidedIdiot
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(3 hours ago) [-]
Is she hot or not hot?
User avatar #220619 to #220614 - rokkai
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(1 hour ago) [-]
with the toned body and decent face, i'd say yeah
User avatar #220611 to #220586 - rokkarokkaali
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(5 hours ago) [-]
Not gay
If anything it's extra masculine cause you know you got pussy on hold so you dont even need to jump for it when you get the chance
User avatar #220620 to #220611 - rokkai
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(1 hour ago) [-]
yeah that's what i've been thinking the whole time. i've only told this to one of my friends and he said the same thing. i mean, when i first said no, she insisted so i guess i can still do it
User avatar #220603 to #220586 - ferrettamer
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(9 hours ago) [-]
i've done it a few times, i don't think i'm gay. my standards are too high tho so.
User avatar #220604 to #220603 - rokkai
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(9 hours ago) [-]
i mean, i know i love me some thicc women thighs but rejecting easy pussy doesn't feel the same as rejecting someone who loves you. its just weird.
User avatar #220605 to #220604 - ferrettamer
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(9 hours ago) [-]
i don't think i follow what you mean
User avatar #220606 to #220605 - rokkai
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(9 hours ago) [-]
i used the word gay in a humorous manner. i know im not gay but it still feels weird.
User avatar #220607 to #220606 - ferrettamer
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(9 hours ago) [-]
yea i got that but are you saying rejecting someone who loves you is easier or harder than rejecting easy pussy? cause nobody could ever love me so i won't ever know that feeling
User avatar #220608 to #220607 - rokkai
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(9 hours ago) [-]
of course it's the case only if you don't feel the same way.
User avatar #220594 to #220586 - cognosceteipsum
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(10 hours ago) [-]
O büyük bir zenci. Sen zenci degilsin.
User avatar #220596 to #220594 - rokkai
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(10 hours ago) [-]
ama sen lanet bir zencisin
User avatar #220597 to #220596 - cognosceteipsum
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(10 hours ago) [-]
yarraksin
User avatar #220592 to #220586 - cognosceteipsum
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(11 hours ago) [-]
you're supposed to want to talk to her just because she's a girl now?
User avatar #220599 to #220592 - rokkai
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(10 hours ago) [-]
idk man i've been feeling related to the crippling depression memes lately so i guess i really lost it
User avatar #220600 to #220599 - cognosceteipsum
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(10 hours ago) [-]
i feel you. you're probably kidding yourself into thinking you really need it, maybe you have some other .. say.. spiritual hole going on. youre probably generally lost.
User avatar #220602 to #220600 - rokkai
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i do have things i enjoy doing. got friends too but yeah i don't even know what i want right now.
User avatar #220635 to #220602 - cognosceteipsum
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(18 minutes ago) [-]
You can enjoy things without feeling that you know what you're doing in life so to speak.
User avatar #220577 - cognosceteipsum
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(11 hours ago) [-]
lately ive lost a lot of interest in social stuff. ive been more focused on myself, on my ideas, my projects, how i can improve, learning languages, playing games etc, discussing a bit online idk.

i have friends and so, but lately i feel complete without most if not all social interaction. I'm not saying this is a problem since I quite like it this way. it's calm, relaxing and lets me develop in a steady pace.

i'm just asking if anybody else is in this position?
User avatar #220628 to #220577 - advicedude
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(42 minutes ago) [-]
This is natural.
User avatar #220615 to #220577 - dehumanizer
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(2 hours ago) [-]
yes but strangely im kinda doing the opposite
User avatar #220632 to #220615 - cognosceteipsum
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(21 minutes ago) [-]
You're not in that position if you're miserable let me tell you
#220578 to #220577 - anon id: c9ad772a
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(11 hours ago) [-]
right there with ya
I'm worried people will think I'm antisocial rather than the reality of me simply liking being by myself
User avatar #220580 to #220578 - cognosceteipsum
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(11 hours ago) [-]
what do you do day to day then?

also which people do you find stimulate you?
#220581 to #220580 - anon id: c9ad772a
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(11 hours ago) [-]
learn new skills, try new music, learn instrument, do outdoors-related things, fitness, delve into different country's histories, just build, the list goes on and on
(try not playing video games or watching tv/movies for once; it's fun)

that's the trouble. Friends with similar interests are tough to find. I have a couple, but I wouldn't want to hang out with them every day.

Outside friends, I try emulating a few people: Steve Irwin, Bear Grylls, Mike Rowe, and Bruce Lee. I really like their "try everything" approach.

"If you always put limits on what you can do, physical or anything else, it’ll spread over into the rest of your life. It’ll spread into your work, into your morality, into your entire being. There are no limits. There are plateaus, but you must not stay there, you must go beyond them. If it kills you, it kills you. A man must constantly exceed his level."
--Bruce Lee
User avatar #220582 to #220581 - cognosceteipsum
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ah yes. sounds similar to me. i only play games that are actually fulfilling to me on a deeper level, e.g. take some skill or such, or is like a job, like world of warcraft. games that are more like projects.

well.... to be fair, we don't sorely need them, so i guess we're good. I'm happy as i am more or less, and so are you i presume.

i see..... i'm more of a person to emulate mental attitudes, outlooks, and even then it's kinda hard to find someone good to emulate, I just try to be myself as the path i'm set on right now seems rather good.

pretty solid advice, but i'm kinda thinking that i'm working within the constraints given to me by god, and therefore i just let go and let god/the universe work its magic on my life. thus far its worked brilliantly.
#220571 - anon id: 9b747e34
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(13 hours ago) [-]
=:Apparently I've forgotten how to strikethrough:=
User avatar #220574 to #220571 - cognosceteipsum
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(12 hours ago) [-]
remove the slashes andd you're go
User avatar #220573 to #220571 - cognosceteipsum
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(12 hours ago) [-]
=/=test=/=
test
#220569 - ljubav
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Hey guise, i am going to ask my gf to merry me, but she lives with her parents, my question is when should i ask her parents for blessings or just asking that i can merry her? What should i do, i am panicking....
User avatar #220629 to #220569 - advicedude
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(41 minutes ago) [-]
Don't do it.
User avatar #220630 to #220629 - ljubav
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(40 minutes ago) [-]
Don't do what? I am eating breakfast now, but i want to eat it.
User avatar #220631 to #220630 - advicedude
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(39 minutes ago) [-]
Don't ask yet.
#220579 to #220569 - anon id: c9ad772a
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it's pretty traditional to ask parents for blessing, but I think it should be expected
helps to show respect for her parents and upholding traditional values
User avatar #220621 to #220579 - ljubav
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(1 hour ago) [-]
Not the question that was asked, but okay.
User avatar #220575 to #220569 - cognosceteipsum
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that's at least how i would do and how everybody else would do in sweden.

only you here know how the customs are in your country, in your particular village, and how orthodox they are, but a modern thing to do would be to marry out of love.
User avatar #220623 to #220575 - ljubav
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Not the question what i was asking, the key word was "when should i ask for blessings" after i ask my gf to merry me or before.
User avatar #220633 to #220623 - cognosceteipsum
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(20 minutes ago) [-]
I dunno. Consult your traditions.
User avatar #220572 to #220569 - cognosceteipsum
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(12 hours ago) [-]
nah, her life her decisions
User avatar #220622 to #220572 - ljubav
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(59 minutes ago) [-]
Not the question what i was asking, but okay.
User avatar #220564 - gibusernamepls
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(15 hours ago) [-]
Alright so I've been texting this girl for like 7 or 8 weeks now, also talk to her almost daily but not as much because autism, and idk if I'm imagining things but it could be that she actually likes me back
But she and a group of friends took dancing lessons and she partnered with a guy I don't know and nobody else seems to really know either, so the only way I'll get information about her relationship to this guy would be if i asked her directly or one of her close friends but they would probably tell her and that would be pretty awkward
But asking her about this guy is probably a bad idea, right? It would probably seem really intrusive, jealous and generally strange (I would do it via text because she's always in a group of friends in school and I'm really shy)
So what do I do? Should I just keep at it and hope that he's just some random acquaintance/ a relative/ even more beta than me/ gay?
#220566 to #220564 - tuodan
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(14 hours ago) [-]
In situations like these I would just casually bring it up like "hey I was wondering who that guy was" and depending on her reaction to that I would ask if she liked him and shit like that. Don't make it seem like your calling her out, just make it seem like your interested in her life. However I wholeheartedly think that if you don't do anything and she does like you, she start to pay more attention to dance boy because I can guarantee hes giving her attention.
User avatar #220567 to #220566 - gibusernamepls
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The dancing shit is over now
Although one of her friends told me they were interested in an advanced class so idk
But for some reason one of my friends has gotten hold of the graduation picture they took and the guy looks kinda dorky so it's all good
#220568 to #220567 - tuodan
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Go get you some dancer pussy my dude. Dancers have the best asses anyway.
User avatar #220565 to #220564 - gibusernamepls
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I mean I guess I could ask one of my friends who was there if he saw anything happening between them
#220558 - tuodan
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Where can I find a tailor that can make custom sized hoodies, I have a pretty long upper body and long arms so my hoodies feel like I'm in fucking kids clothes and it looks like it too. Where should I even start?