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User avatar #190066 - drastronomy (32 minutes ago) [-]
My friends and i seperated and went to different schools last year.
I went to an IB school
1 went to an athlete-oriented school
1 went to a english-oriented school
The rest went to a normal public school

The two who did not go to public school and i have been trying to keep in touch, yet it seems the others have found new friends that they prefer. That would be alright, except they are denying the fact, and behind our backs they are talking shit. I know this since a new friend of mine from IB has told me quite a bit about that, since my buddies' new friends were his friends last year in 11th grade, however my new friend and his friends still keep in touch. This means he gets to hear all their conversations they have with my friends.

Now, what i want to know is: should i try to pull the shambles together or should i just stop giving a fuck?
User avatar #190065 - charizarddad (1 hour ago) [-]
i work as a stocker at a tool store. i can run register and do so a lot, and i can also help with one other position where i work. i never remember prices and coupons. they change about every month, and someone will ask me "is that the item on sale this month?" to which i never know. should i know? is this weird?
User avatar #190064 - confusedasian (1 hour ago) [-]
Since there's a July 4th sale going on at guitar center, I figured it would be a nice time to pick up a bass. Any that you guys recommend me to look into?

I'm thinking of this.

I prefer 5 strings and white color. Or black with a white pickguard to match the guitar I got. I don't really have a price limit at the moment so just whatever is fine.
User avatar #190061 - murpmurp ONLINE (5 hours ago) [-]
so, now that greece is fucked, how much would it take to buy greece?
User avatar #190063 to #190061 - assyria (3 hours ago) [-]
1.6 billion euros i think
#190050 - vvthegreats (6 hours ago) [-]
Someone mind explaining to me that whenever someone tries to help a girl, it is considered "euphoria" on this site? Honestly I got 30 red thumbs for just trying to help and I got so much shit for it. I need an explanation. Is this site really dropping in its humanity?
#190058 to #190050 - oxidoferroso (5 hours ago) [-]
Wording, nigger, wording
#190056 to #190050 - Rascal (6 hours ago) [-]
I'm not doing any asking for advice here. Advice board is more for solving problems than bitching. Unless of course to you FunnyJunk is a life problem of yours? Otherwise, quit your whining. Everyone gets red thumbs for things both warranted and unwarranted. Deal with it. I also like how you don't bother posting a link so we are actually able to perhaps offer conductive criticism or back you up. Real helpful.
#190054 to #190050 - plantain ONLINE (6 hours ago) [-]
Watch your wording, man. You did come off like a bit of a fedora-tipper.

Also consider that it wasn't that big of a deal: just your standard forum drama that everyone forgets the next day. I doubt she needs any emotional support.
#190044 - Rascal (12 hours ago) [-]
yo can anyone give me that webm of 2 british guys reading a hentai called "me step moms too fuckin hot"
#190045 to #190044 - iridium (11 hours ago) [-]
I need to learn to save my Webms with a file name and not "5221_3wd92jd92qwjd9weh"
I need to learn to save my Webms with a file name and not "5221_3wd92jd92qwjd9weh"
User avatar #190060 to #190045 - dingdongsingsong (5 hours ago) [-]
do you have sauce btw ? i wanna watch more of these
User avatar #190051 to #190047 - itchnoo (6 hours ago) [-]
This is my fetish
User avatar #190052 to #190051 - dingdongsingsong (6 hours ago) [-]
I'll try my best
User avatar #190043 - advicedude (14 hours ago) [-]
Let's all take a moment and appreciate that we have a nearly fully functioning Web app for this site. Back when the site was still lime green, brings a tear to my eye.
User avatar #190059 to #190043 - oxidoferroso (5 hours ago) [-]
Worst advice ever, 3/10 would not summon
User avatar #190035 - crouchingleemur ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
got a factory job and worked for 3 days. 2 days in a room learning about the job and 1 day doing the job. i also "quit" the 3st day and im feeling quite shitty about it. the job was just much at one time and i couldn't keep my cool.
User avatar #190042 to #190035 - advicedude (14 hours ago) [-]
Yeah this is a confusing situation because there are times when you know you could take the job because there are plenty of other worse jobs out there, but then also there are jobs that either waste your time, or are way too stressful. Just do whatever helps you afford bills and doesn't conflict with any life outside of work.
User avatar #190049 to #190042 - crouchingleemur ONLINE (7 hours ago) [-]
I kind of knew the job was going to suck to begin with. the workers there kept telling me they only had 2 days off in 2 months, working 10-12 shifts. but thanks man this helped me.
User avatar #190034 - valourinfj (18 hours ago) [-]
What's with childless women kicking men out of homes they own? Isn't that like, against the law in the Usa? I mean, just wondering here.
#190030 - notred ONLINE (18 hours ago) [-]
All my friends are leaving in September for school. I feel realky shit about it. My life feels like a fucking mess to me. Nothing is going right. I feel awful.
#190041 to #190030 - averagewhitekid (15 hours ago) [-]
You have to start finding new company in your area or the loneliness will bring you far worse depression than before   
Its bad to be depressed with friends   
But its absolutely god fucking awful to be depressed with no friend to turn to
You have to start finding new company in your area or the loneliness will bring you far worse depression than before
Its bad to be depressed with friends
But its absolutely god fucking awful to be depressed with no friend to turn to
#190031 to #190030 - confusedasian (18 hours ago) [-]
A haiku for your troubles young master.

When all seems down town.
Grab quick your little member.
Tug and masturbate.
User avatar #190032 to #190031 - notred ONLINE (18 hours ago) [-]
I've pretty much lost all libido due to this depression. Haven't fapped in 2 weeks.
#190016 - Rascal (20 hours ago) [-]
so a friend of mine is in panic mode right now because she found a naughty underwear pic of a girl she knows while she was using her boyfriend's computer. this is the only relationship she has ever been in, they have been together for two years now and he's far from private, he's always trusted her using his phone, laptop, leaving his facebook chat logged in, etc. so obviously she was shocked to see this picture and started freaking out. she went on his facebook chat and looked through his messages with the girl (a close friend of his who moved away, but caused some trouble in my friend's relationship by acting very clingy/touchy with her bf and trying to monopolize his attention) and finds that their conversations are fairly normal and platonic except for monday when the following happened: he said he missed her, to which she responded with the underwear picture. he replies with "that's a very nice picture ;) can i have another?" and she sends him a normal, clothed picture. however, he only saved the scantily clad one.
so my question is what should she do? she can't see him until tomorrow night and she's afraid that if she dumps him, it'll be a crazy overreaction and she'll throw away a great relationship over a stupid mistake, but what he did was decently scummy in my book and i'm afraid she'll get hurt again.
#190048 to #190016 - Rascal (9 hours ago) [-]
She should file rape charges because he obviously forgot to check his privilege and deserves nothing less than public castration for even thinking about a womyn in a sexual way, especially one that he isn't dating! Fuck him up the ass with a rusty pipe and hang him out to dry.
User avatar #190037 to #190016 - xxhunterxx (16 hours ago) [-]
Alright, so everybody fucks up at least once in a relationship.
It would be foolish to break up with him over something like that.

I suggest that she bring it up and talk to him about it. Communication is a lot in a relationship, and I always bother my SO if I feel like something's up even if she doesn't want to tell me because keeping secrets from each other isn't good.

I mean don't forgive the man off the bat, but she should tell him that she knows and wants to know why he did it. He probably doesn't even know that it was that bad.

I fucked up once, didn't realize that I did until she started acting all funny. Asked her what was up and she straight up told me. We talked about it and forgive and forget because I felt really scummy after I realized how much I hurt her. He's probably saving something for the spank bank and doesn't realize how that would jeopardize the relationship.

That's all I can say.
#190055 to #190037 - Rascal (6 hours ago) [-]
Yeah, I understand what you're saying. That's why it's so hard to figure out what to do, because she's not sure if it should be a big deal or not. She was crying uncontrollably for hours last night, not because he had a picture because it's not as if she's a stranger to porn or attractive women, but because of who it was. This is a girl he knows and talks to all the time, they've been close friends for years. That's why she's upset. She feels as if she can no longer trust him.
User avatar #190057 to #190055 - xxhunterxx (6 hours ago) [-]
Like I said, she just needs to bring it up to him. Can't just keep it a secret.
#190062 to #190057 - Rascal (4 hours ago) [-]
Okay, so she talked to him this morning, took all of her strength not to start yelling and crying. He said it was retarded of him to save the picture and he didn't intend to receive anything so provocative when he asked for a pic (which I kinda think is him trying to cover his own ass, but maybe that's just me). He said he understands if she wants to end the relationship, but if he got another chance he'd prove to her something like that would never happen again. She's decided to take time to think about it. In talking with my boyfriend about it, he says she should just dump him and move on because, in his words, "this is the first time he got caught, not the first time he's done something similar."
#190023 to #190016 - amazingzebra (19 hours ago) [-]
I mean she came onto him pretty hard. I think its pretty normal to save something for the spank bank. That being said it sounds like hes being pretty reckless
User avatar #190025 to #190023 - gabsmatags (19 hours ago) [-]
She wouldn't have cared if it were just some pic he had pulled off the internet, porn and that kind of thing is fine with her. But this came from someone she knows, someone he is close to and he didn't just accept the picture, he saved it and asked for more. I think it's highly inappropriate and she's right to feel betrayed. I personally think she'd be in the right to leave him, but I don't think she will.
User avatar #190022 to #190016 - bobvonbobby ONLINE (19 hours ago) [-]
How old are you people?
User avatar #190024 to #190022 - gabsmatags (19 hours ago) [-]
She's 19, he's 21.
User avatar #190036 to #190024 - bobvonbobby ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
My advice is to recommend for her to move on. It may be her first relationship, but if he can't stay loyal, he's obviously not good for her. She'll find someone else. It's life. There aren't many fairy tale endings.
#190010 - imnotbaisse (21 hours ago) [-]
Co-worker at job I just started is cruising for hook-ups and all but asked me to D-air her downstairs.
All this hype about losing your V-card has built forever and now that it is all but thrown in my face I find the idea of actually going through with it unpleasant.
Have 2-D women ruined women for me or is it normal to not want to slam someone you don't have feelings for?
User avatar #190046 to #190010 - iridium (11 hours ago) [-]
I'm in the "if you aren't attracted to her, it's normal to not want to have sex with her". Personally I feel there's a bit of a difference between losing your virginity and the first time you REALLY have sex.
#190021 to #190010 - Rascal (20 hours ago) [-]
Nah, it just means you view sex as a more intimate gesture than a lot of people. I'm the same way, I couldn't imagine sharing my body with someone I don't love and connect with on multiple levels. Not everyone shares the sentiment and that's okay too.
User avatar #190012 to #190010 - paintskillz (21 hours ago) [-]
If you don't like her then don't go through with it. Although getting rid of your vcard may help any insecurities you have about it.
#190011 to #190010 - imnotbaisse (21 hours ago) [-]
and this is in no way a brag post sorry if it came across as one,
this is the first time shit like this has happened i'm really not trying to flex my peen here
User avatar #189946 - vetis (07/01/2015) [-]
I can't find any of these online to compare a price so I need an estimate of what you think this is worth. I'm no good with signed items.

I have the Limitless album by Crown The Empire and it has all five members signatures. Estimate on worth? It's not in plastic but it's got no bends, scratches, etc. Mint condition, I guess?
User avatar #189966 to #189946 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
What medium? ( vinyl, cd, tape, wax paper)
User avatar #189968 to #189966 - vetis (07/01/2015) [-]
Signed on the case of the cd, and the disc itself.
User avatar #189974 to #189968 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
45 - 65
User avatar #189973 to #189968 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
45 dollars maybe.
User avatar #189975 to #189973 - vetis (07/01/2015) [-]
User avatar #190005 to #189975 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
I did some research into it so yeah.
User avatar #190006 to #190005 - vetis (07/01/2015) [-]
I appreciate you taking the time to do that, thankyou. I tried googling a few things but had no luck, I didn't really know what to look for it seems.
User avatar #189971 to #189968 - vetis (07/01/2015) [-]
Also if it matters, this particular album was released in one of those folding paper cases, not the typical plastic box.
User avatar #189944 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
A series of unfortunate events has left me without a place to sleep. I'm in Edmonton, Alberta. I have no idea where to go, I moved here exactly one year ago.
User avatar #189956 to #189944 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
Read Lemony Snicket. He might give you some insight.
#189948 to #189944 - plantain ONLINE (07/01/2015) [-]
First off, sick reference bro.

Don't you have any friends or family you could crash with for a day or two?
User avatar #189951 to #189948 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
They're all a province away, and some of them are people I simply cannot go back to for reasons.

Also thanks. It's been making me smirk for the time being.
#189947 to #189944 - unitedabominations (07/01/2015) [-]

Here you go, fam. It's probably really embarrassing, but it'll get you a place to sleep and eat until you get on your feet.

Best of luck, bro.
User avatar #189949 to #189947 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
I'm absolutely terrified. For the first time ever, I'll have no permanent residence. But, I might consider doing this. Thanks.
#189950 to #189949 - unitedabominations (07/01/2015) [-]
Sal good, man. If you need council or someone to just bullshit with, we're always here for you.

It's a rough time in your life, but things get nothing but better. You'll find permanency.
User avatar #189979 to #189950 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
I might need to ask for that bullshit part. Nothing is responding because it's goddamn Canada fucking Day so everything is closed. I can't call any of the shelters.
User avatar #189945 to #189944 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
Also note, I'm posting this here simply because I'm desperate and have no idea what adults in this situation do. It's full-panic mode.
User avatar #189983 to #189945 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
How old are you?
User avatar #189987 to #189983 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
I turned 20 in March.
User avatar #189989 to #189987 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
Have you contacted your family? You should do so even if they're in another province.
User avatar #189990 to #189989 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
My mother knows the situation. She can't even come down until the weekend either way.
User avatar #189992 to #189990 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
Why can't you go to her?
Where are you now?
Why can't your mother lend you some money so you can stay somewhere until the weekend?
User avatar #189993 to #189992 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
My mother was super abusive which is the entire reason I moved out in the first place. She's in Saskatchewan, I'm in Alberta. And she's dirt poor supporting three other kids by herself, she asked me for money last month. There's nobody I can' ask right now and I've almost run out of options. All numbers or sites I'm given don't respond or turn me away. I posted ads on Craigslist and Couchsurfer and what has happened every time is either no response, or a response asking if I'm a girl followed by a rejection because I'm not a girl.
User avatar #189994 to #189993 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
Are you a student? Can you not get a job?
User avatar #189995 to #189994 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
I am not a student and I have two jobs. I simply cannot afford a place *right now* until payday *this Friday*. I emphasize that I'm getting paid and am a working man but I'm still turned away by everybody.
User avatar #189996 to #189995 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
My bad, sorry it's late here.
Do you have absolutely no one you could ask? No one from work even? It may seem a bit crazy, but could you at least take refuge in one of your work's buildings?
User avatar #189997 to #189996 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
No worries, I feel I'm coming off as very aggressive. I apologize, I'm distressed.
I tried people from work, but they're all college-aged kids who have no money or space to care for another.
User avatar #189998 to #189997 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
As I said, can you try asking your boss if you could use the building for just a night? Make up some excuse if you're embarrassed.
There has to be someone you can try.
User avatar #189999 to #189998 - arbyworks (07/01/2015) [-]
My bosses are notoriously cheap and also notoriously do not give a shit about their employees. Restaurant managers love to take, take, take but never give.
User avatar #190000 to #189999 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
Well I don't know what to recommend, don't just give up though.
User avatar #190007 to #190000 - arbyworks (23 hours ago) [-]
Thanks. I'm keeping that mindset. I'm alive so there's something that can be done.
User avatar #190029 to #190007 - womanexplain (18 hours ago) [-]
Exactly, let me know how everything goes.
User avatar #189941 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
Weight loss is all about lowering your intake of calories and burning more than you eat isn't it? Theoretically, I can eat whatever I want. I just need to not over eat right? Or is that weight control?
User avatar #190039 to #189941 - rokkai (15 hours ago) [-]
well, it is but that would slow the process big time.
#190009 to #189941 - imnotbaisse (22 hours ago) [-]
The same exact question that started macro dieting
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#189984 to #189941 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
Actually, calories do not matter as much as fat content when looking to lose weight.
It's a common misconception that by merely lowering calorie intake you can lose weight.
Fat cells (the cells that make us either fat or skinny) grow or shrink in relevance to how much fat you intake.
Some people are born with normal fat cells, other with obese fat cells (fat cells that are capable of in taking too much fat from food). When you are born, both obese and normal fat cells are of normal size. Imagine two babies, Baby A has normal fat cells, and baby B has obese ones. Baby A and baby B eat the same diet, however baby B intakes more fat from the foods that he eats, as opposed to baby A.
When obese fat cells intake too much fat, they become enlarged (that is when we see physically the effects of obesity). When an obese person loses weight, their fat cells reduce, however the fat cells are uneven as opposed to the normal fat cells and they can grow bigger again, they have just been reduced in size because they intake less fat.
Less fat=less fat cell growth. i.e. Don't wanna be fat? Don't eat it.
Fats include healthy fats when losing weight too (even Salmon and Avocado, eating 'healthy' fats makes no difference to someone struggling with weight loss, fat cells intake fat in a similar way no matter what type of fat it is. So avoid it.
Sugar is the 2nd most important factor however, calories indicate how much sugar there is in a product, sugar can also create fat stores when too much is consumed, however because it isn't a direct fat it isn't as dangerous. Natural sugars like fruit are fine, however things like fruit juice can be full of artificial sugars so you should probably avoid them.
That's all I have to say on this, I hope I helped!
#190001 to #189984 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
I be on the treadmill like.

Least I can eat as much watermelon as I want.
User avatar #190002 to #190001 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
walla melone
User avatar #189957 to #189941 - hirollin (07/01/2015) [-]
my fitness pal is the shit and will change how you view on eating.
it will change your view because you find out that a glass of fucking juice is 1/3 of all the fucking calories you can eat that day.
User avatar #189959 to #189957 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
Good thing I don't drink orange juice then. I drink like 4 - 7 bottles of water. Really, it's not the eating. It's more I'm a lazy faggot that doesn't go and move around a lot.
User avatar #189964 to #189959 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
it also has a barcode scanner
User avatar #189961 to #189959 - hirollin (07/01/2015) [-]
It's really quite an intriguing app. You eat 3 bowls of cereal, and that is the only food you can eat for the day. 2 Pieces of pizza is like 75%. It's a very useful app. Really keeps you honest.
User avatar #189963 to #189961 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
2 peices? I eat like 6 slices. Damn, maybe my eating is a part of the problem.
User avatar #189942 to #189941 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
Calories burned > Daily Caloric Intake = Weight loss
Calories burned = Daily Caloric Intake = Homeostasis
Calories burned < Daily Caloric Intake = Weight gain

You burn calories in your sleep, sitting, walking, thinking, anything. At the end of the day after all the basic stuff, you'll burn a certain amount of calories that day doing those things on average. That is your Daily Caloric Intake. Mine is about 1450 calories. Once I work out, I burn extra calories. Any extra calories burned counts towards weight loss. Any extra calories stored (not burned) counts towards weight gain.

Go here to find out how much your Daily Caloric Intake is:

There are certain fitness apps that will help you tell how many calories certain foods are such as MyFitnessPal to make it easier.

Have fun
User avatar #189960 to #189942 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
2250 calories needed? That seems a bit high doesn't it? I clicked inactive and put in my weight and all that. Wouldn't I need less?
User avatar #189962 to #189960 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
I'm 5 foot 7.5, 180 pounds, and live a sedentary lifestyle. My average caloric intake is around 1500 but you can tweak it a bit incase you wanna lose weight. Average American is around that as well
User avatar #189965 to #189962 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
I see. So 2250 is to maintain my weight. Alright, I'm looking to lose it, so alright I got it.
User avatar #189967 to #189965 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
Well even that seems pretty high, try using the calculator for the MyFitnessPal app. That works well too. but yes. Find your limit, eat as much calories until you hit it or go under, don't go over. also excersize to burn extra calories, and you'll lose weight.
User avatar #189969 to #189967 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
You think it'd be better to have like small portions separated throughout the day like some fruit snacks and like rice dinner, or just stick to the usual breakfast, lunch, dinner?
User avatar #189970 to #189969 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
Well, then you start getting into certain diets. The diet that has always worked best for me was the Zone diet.
User avatar #189972 to #189970 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
Oh yeah, that's actually what I was trying to describe. Alright cool.
User avatar #189929 - talifan (07/01/2015) [-]
Can someone help me understand this Transexuality thing? From what iv gathered, its feeling you are in the wrong gender? Im finding it hard to get my head around. Are there any Studies to help me figure out how these people have come to be? Can the behavior bee seen in the wild?
User avatar #189939 to #189929 - confusedasian (07/01/2015) [-]
Transsexual is not to be confused with transgender. Although I would argue both is a mental "illness" or whatever, I've only heard transsexualism been defined as a mental issue. There's nothing really wrong with that, but no one likes being told they have mental issues. That however is a different thing entirely.

Transgender people, you can just think of them as the drag queens or cross dressers. They're the people that dress and behave as the opposite gender. Albeit to some this could be a fetish or they like being the opposite sex. Some gay people like women's clothing, same for lesbians in men's clothing. Heck, some straight people like it too. I knew a guy I thought was gay because he exuded a lot of feminine quality and he turned out to be straight.

Transsexuals on the other hand are the people that believe they are born the wrong sex. These are the people you see getting the sex change to change their genders. The process (at least in America as far as I know) is to seek a psychologists for analyzing, then getting with a doctor, then boom badda bing.

Just remember sex and gender though to make it easier. Sex is UN-ALTERABLE. You're born as a boy, you're a boy. You're born as a girl, you're a girl. You can not change that fact no matter how hard you try. Gender is something you identify with. I was born with a male sex, and my gender is a male. A girl at my college was born as the male sex, but identifies as the female gender.

No offense to anyone trans reading this.
User avatar #189985 to #189939 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
They're not mental health issues actually, there is biological evidence for transgenders/sexuals having genuinely feminine or masculine brains. (Brain lateralisation)
Don't label people with mental illness when they truly don't have it.
When someone is merely confused about their gender and is not trans, we say they have gender dysphoria. This term is becoming less popular in the trans community however.
#189938 to #189929 - Rascal (07/01/2015) [-]
It's not found in nature and has been proven by psychologists to be a state of mind. Wouldn't pay much mind to it.
User avatar #189986 to #189938 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
Brain lateralisation
User avatar #189931 to #189929 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
lol basically, it's when you're born with a penis/vagina, but you'd prefer to have the opposite.
User avatar #189934 to #189931 - talifan (07/01/2015) [-]
I just wondered because there is a good amount of evidence showing homosexual behaviors in animals in the wild, so i just wanted to know if it was a primal thing or something. I didn't meant to sound derogatory or anything. It all seem a bit difficult trying to portray yourself as another sex. I mean, you wouldn't be treated for female health problems if you were born a man or vice versa would you? It would only be polite to make it known of your transition to your partners, right?
User avatar #189936 to #189934 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
Well males could go for estrogen injections so they might develop some of those symptoms. And when it comes to animals, I guess some species have higher tendencies than others, but it's all just nature. When you strip everything down to it, it comes down to the act of sex, and the effort to create offspring.
User avatar #189937 to #189936 - talifan (07/01/2015) [-]
I guess so. I'm just trying to come to terms with it. i guess ill never have to worry about pushing through scours of men in dresses. Its just new to me is all. still coming to terms. thanks.
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User avatar #189914 - emperorskittles (07/01/2015) [-]
I've just now discovered that I have RLS (restless leg syndrome) and it has gotten to the point to where it is preventing me from sleeping.
What can I do to cure this?
User avatar #190013 to #189914 - paintskillz (21 hours ago) [-]
I'd tell you to go see a doctor but he'd probably just tell you to remove the leg
User avatar #189928 to #189914 - sugoi (07/01/2015) [-]
Run a 10k marathon so it doesn't feel so restless anymore.
User avatar #189920 to #189914 - oxidoferroso (07/01/2015) [-]
Eliminate your lower body
User avatar #189916 to #189914 - mendelevium (07/01/2015) [-]
Remove the Leg
User avatar #189915 to #189914 - noneckcomics (07/01/2015) [-]
Remove the leg.
User avatar #189908 - iliekcereal (07/01/2015) [-]
this grill i really like just told me she's working til really late on the fourth and she's really upset about that. i have no clue if she likes me back. what i kinda wanna do is surprise her with some fireworks after work but idk if that's too risky of a move. i'm already a bit worried i'm coming on too strong and kinda weirding her out. what should i do?
User avatar #190038 to #189908 - xxhunterxx (16 hours ago) [-]
How late she working? If you're really interested in this girl you should stay up and take her the night out after work, make it worth something. Bring her to a nice dinner (not taco bell, but not like fucking French food atop a hotel or something either), and explore the streets. If you're both legal drinking age have a couple drinks at the bar and shoot the shit around town.

It's not a proper date but it's something to do for her to show that you really care about her because you took the time to actually take her out late at night.

Then you ask if she enjoyed her time and then ask her out on a proper date at an appropriate time and then go on a nice date bitch.
User avatar #189991 to #189908 - womanexplain (07/01/2015) [-]
Don't do something so extreme, locate a local fireworks show that will be on after her work is out (there should be one) and take her to it.
Maybe even invite a few friends (try and invite people she knows too) and have your own firework party, invite her along to it. Don't have too many people however.
User avatar #190015 to #189991 - iliekcereal (20 hours ago) [-]
nice idea. i might ask her to this show i think is the night before the fourth. she works til after midnight so i doubt theres a show we could go to. i don't really have many friends (just came back from college, lost touch with a lot of the people i used to be close with) so idk who i'll invite
#190017 to #190015 - amazingzebra (20 hours ago) [-]
if you have options dont invite people that are closer to her then you are.
User avatar #190018 to #190017 - iliekcereal (20 hours ago) [-]
guys, or people in general? also sorry for not responding to you. you have a good point. i have a tendency to try too hard with my relationships and i think that's why most of them fail. i plan to ask her soon, there are just things i need to fix with myself first
#190020 to #190018 - amazingzebra (20 hours ago) [-]
I mean like, honestly, I always find that just being direct as fuck is good. If she has a general idea of the person you are, then shes seen enough to know. A lot of times girls make up their minds pretty quick in my experience. Ive never had a long term friend turn into a relationship but ive had a lot of girls I just kinda knew that I thought were cute and ended up having a healthy, long relationship with.

I mean, the thing is if you invite people who are closer your just kinda putting obstacles in your way. I know thats a shitty way of thinking but its how it works out. I had a girl that I was trying to get to know in a college math class and people would try to contribute to our conversations because of the seating format but it really just made things hard on me to learn about her and let her learn about me.

#189943 to #189908 - amazingzebra (07/01/2015) [-]
you dont need to do something that extreme just to get on terms with someone as a love interest. It should be a lot more simply then that. You're likely trying to hard. Just ask her out on a date.

Might hurt if she says no, but honestly its the best way to go. If your worried about losing her as a friend, its probably because you are unsure if you have other friends that will be there when shes gone and your just kind of clinging onto something because your too scared to lose it, even though its not really what your looking for to begin with.
User avatar #189932 to #189908 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
Stay up and try to see her, or still talk to her even how late she might be out that day. Fireworks are a good idea, just be careful.
User avatar #190019 to #189932 - iliekcereal (20 hours ago) [-]
thanks man
User avatar #189917 to #189908 - mendelevium (07/01/2015) [-]
If you don't know if she likes you she doesn't like you.
Find someone else.
User avatar #189910 to #189908 - makotoitou (07/01/2015) [-]
You can do that, just play it correctly. Say that you thought she was upset about working late on the 4th so you wanted to cheer her up with some fireworks.
User avatar #189911 to #189910 - makotoitou (07/01/2015) [-]
well correction: would she like your ghetto ass fireworks or no?
User avatar #189913 to #189911 - iliekcereal (07/01/2015) [-]
no idea. like i said i am getting kinda worried i'm weirding her out a bit. idk if we're just friends or not. i'm not even sure i have the $$$ to pull this off
User avatar #189909 to #189908 - yourinvisiblegf (07/01/2015) [-]
no firework

be more precise, more details also
User avatar #189912 to #189909 - iliekcereal (07/01/2015) [-]
explain pls
User avatar #189907 - icanpaintyay (07/01/2015) [-]
I have half a lime and a whole step of dill leaves. What should I season?
User avatar #189935 to #189907 - advicedude (07/01/2015) [-]
Put the lime in a coconut and mix them both together.
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