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#213245 - plantain
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(3 hours ago) [-]
So how fucked would I be if I majored in Political Science?
#213246 to #213245 - nigerianprince
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(2 hours ago) [-]
Not fucked at all, if you like stocks, economics and polisci is a deadly combination since a lot of the stock market revolves around politics.
#213236 - anon
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(14 hours ago) [-]
My girlfriend just told me that she kissed her ex 2 weeks ago. I lost my virginity this week with her and we told each other that we love each other. She said she did it cause she didnt know what she wanted from the relationship. She says she feels bad about it and she said she wants no one but me now. So, what do I do about this.
#213238 to #213236 - sugoi
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(13 hours ago) [-]
Do nothing.
She told you instead of you finding out so thats a good start but think about asking her o cut contact with her ex. Otherwise doesnt seem like a big deal especially since you havent exactly told us a lot like how long you've been dating.
#213231 - shyyguy
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Sorry, one more: I have really bad concentration. I'm self-employed computer job . Sometimes I can barely reach 3 hours of work. I aim for 7 everyday, results in 50 hours a week, and did great the first month or two.
#213240 to #213231 - babasera
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(10 hours ago) [-]
well there are many things that can help so ill give you few advices.
if you have money that you don't spend,just spend it on something,because then you wont have money but that you will need it for later,then doing your job is your only option.
try to make your job more interesting,try doing different things(depends on your job),its known fact that ppl will be more focused when they need to solve problems/or experiment.

maybe you have bad concentration because you want to do something else?if thats the reason then you have to sort that out before doing your job

#213233 to #213231 - mondominiman ONLINE
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Don't masturbate during work and youll notice it's easier to work.
#213235 to #213233 - shyyguy
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Yea, I realize masturbating is draining my focus. So I'll make that a priority.
#213232 to #213231 - shyyguy
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Implied question: how do I fix poor focusing?
#213237 to #213232 - dragondust
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(14 hours ago) [-]
The best way you can improve your focus is by just keeping your mind only on your work.
Clear your workspace of distractions, not just materiel items, but things like bookmarks, tray icons, games, or anything that could lead you away from your work. Personally, drinking some caffeine and not eating too much helps my mind stay sharp.

As for the fap issue, that's probably a little more complicated. Try just doing it once a day then do your best to not think about it for the rest of the day. If you're trying to cut it completely, just force yourself not to for 3 or so days then you'll find it's a lot easier to abstain.
#213230 - shyyguy
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Best techniques to stop masturbating? It's consuming me and I need to stop.
#213248 to #213230 - mintea ONLINE
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(1 hour ago) [-]
Switch your lube out with super glue
#213247 to #213230 - charizarddad
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(1 hour ago) [-]
if you really want to get serious about it: reddit.com/r/nofap
i think that is a little over the top though. just stop. every time you feel the urge distract yourself or think something along the lines of "mind over matter. i dont have to masturbate" works for some people. if you fuck up and masturbate again, just try again. sort of a practice makes perfect. if you just want to cut down, gradually decrease the amount of times you are allowed to do it until you get to where you want to be.
#213241 to #213230 - babasera
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(10 hours ago) [-]
just stop doing it,it's hardest at start,but as the time passes it will be easier to endure
you just need willpower and find something that will occupy your free time
#213239 to #213230 - sugoi
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(13 hours ago) [-]
Cut your dick off.
#213244 to #213239 - shyyguy
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(7 hours ago) [-]
Sometimes that seems easier, hahah.
#213226 - lolerbot
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(15 hours ago) [-]
Ok can someone tell me how a guy should shave his pubes?
Like, whenever I try, it just ends up getting really irritated and scratchy.
Or is that just how it always is?
#213234 to #213226 - anon
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Well the itchy part happens everytimr unless you're used to shaving down there. What does the trick for me is to slather the area up in baby oil afterwards
#213224 - girrafalopegis
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(16 hours ago) [-]
I'm not quite sure what board to ask so I'm asking here, what font is this?
#213227 to #213224 - shyyguy
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(15 hours ago) [-]
Looks custom, honestly. Though I don't know what context this is in. There are forums dedicated to this sort of thing, so you could try there if you're desperate enough to sign up for an account.
#213222 - blazingsoul ONLINE
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(17 hours ago) [-]
Whats the best way to deal with anxiety? I find myself going crazy, I have to count all my important things in my wallets like my debt card to make sure they are there multiple times when I'm doing things around town, I scan my computer with malwarebytes and superantispyware at the slightest thing I consider out of place, I feel very antsy and sometimes feel like I have to give myself a light punch in my shoulders and legs to get rid of that feeling like I got a monkey on my back. I feel like the world is constantly out to get me because shit keeps going wrong with my life.
#213242 to #213222 - babasera
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(10 hours ago) [-]
i also have the same problem but i managed to overcome it by using willpower(i used to have great urge to check everything at least 3 times but then i just stopped,now i don't do those kind of things anymore)
you just have to stop doing those things
you probably know that you already have everything that you need in your wallet but you still count it 3 times,just stop,you will lose the need to do it after few weeks or months+you will feel better
#213228 to #213222 - shyyguy
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(15 hours ago) [-]
Try meditation
#213225 to #213222 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(16 hours ago) [-]
Probably seeing a therapist
#213218 - jvizzlez
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(21 hours ago) [-]
I feel like a fucking idiot, but here we go:

How do I calculate the odds of multiple separate events happening, that are independent of each other? Like, there is a 1/47 chance of some shit happening. There is also a 1/94 chance of some shit happening. Finally, there is 3/47 chance of some shit happening. What would be the odds of any one of these "some shits" happening?

Or, a clearer example: In warcraft 3, there are two abilities, evasion and curse (iirc). Max evasion gives a 30% chance to avoid incoming attacks, and curse gives 33% chance for an enemy to miss. If an enemy was cursed, and the person he was attacking had evasion, the odds of the attacker missing would no be 63%; I know this for a fact. But what would it be, and why?
#213221 to #213218 - charizarddad
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(18 hours ago) [-]
say you have a 50% chance to get heads on a coin. you have another 50% chance to get heads again, but you have to half the original percentage if you want to calculate for two heads in a row. so 1/2 times 1/2 or 0.5 times 0.5 = 0.25 or 1/4.
so 77% chance to hit, you have to pass this first then they have a chance to evade, which is 30%(which is defined as a 70% chance to miss)
77/100 x 70/100 = 539/100 or 53.9% to miss
game calculation sometimes has lots of secrets and ways they calculate things so these numbers are not always true
#213213 - shadowkingdr ONLINE
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(21 hours ago) [-]
Looking for quality lovecraft audiobooks, not just someone reading it but reading it with EMOTION
#213229 to #213213 - shyyguy
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(15 hours ago) [-]
Try /books/
#213212 - imnotnewhereok ONLINE
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(22 hours ago) [-]
I just said no to an sos from a girl (she needed me to pick her up from a place that is an hour away without telling me her destination) I was obvies being used by her so i said no and to be honest i feel like shit. the fuck
#213223 to #213212 - sugoi
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(17 hours ago) [-]
Why do you feel bad.
Don't be a pushover, unless you're giving her the D, dating, or related there is no goddamn need for you to pick up someone a goddamn hour away.
#213214 to #213212 - shadowkingdr ONLINE
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(21 hours ago) [-]
Depends, how were you being "used"
#213216 to #213214 - imnotnewhereok ONLINE
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(21 hours ago) [-]
For rides.
#213217 to #213216 - shadowkingdr ONLINE
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(21 hours ago) [-]
Did you bring it up with her?