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User avatar #14 - davidispissed (01/14/2014) [-]
Kill her, and her dog.
User avatar #29 to #14 - suitandtie ONLINE (01/14/2014) [-]
I hated that ******* dog. Good advice.
#10 - sanguinesolitude (01/14/2014) [-]
tell her how you feel, see her reaction. And accept it. If she is into you still, maybe it will work out. If she isnt, take some time to mourn the relationship and then move on with your life.

and always remember the wise words of the sloth
User avatar #11 to #10 - suitandtie ONLINE (01/14/2014) [-]
I tried that. She gave a very non-committal response, then led me on for a while. We had a fwb thing going, but I still really loved her. She knew that, and kept it going. Then disappeared for a while, and then informed me a couple hours ago that she's started seeing someone.
User avatar #12 to #11 - sanguinesolitude (01/14/2014) [-]
well as much as it sucks, start distancing yourself from her. Maybe she will miss you and come back, but otherwise she will just use you for emotional support while ******* other dudes. naint nobody want dat **** .
User avatar #13 to #12 - suitandtie ONLINE (01/14/2014) [-]
Well, I've deactivated my FB(I wound up getting surrounded by her friends). I deleted her phone number from my phone, which I never bothered to remember. I've also deleted her friends' numbers so I can't reach out to any of them in a moment of weakness. I have no way to contact her. If she wants to talk, she will reach out to me. And we'll where it goes from there. Worst case scenario? I post the text here and let people roll for responses.
User avatar #30 to #13 - sanguinesolitude (01/15/2014) [-]
sounds good. Go to the gym, will help you get in shape, will make you feel better, and there are cute girls in yoga pants there.
User avatar #8 - TheHutchie (01/13/2014) [-]
These things happen, and moving on isn't easy by any stretch of the imagination. But moving on is exactly what you need to do, and exactly what you will do.

Time goes faster than you realise. It won't seem like very long before this is just a memory, and you can use the experience in the future. All you need to do right now is be strong, and keep going.
User avatar #7 - friendlyanon (01/13/2014) [-]
You are not an idiot, you are a person in love (they are very similar things but not exactly the same).
Your mistakes has been commited by all of us before, don't punish yourself too much for it.
Only advice i can give you is that when a relationship ends, it ends. Let it go, you'll fell better.

Be strong, and keep walking. Good luck.
User avatar #6 - navywannabe (01/13/2014) [-]
Pick up a different bitch...
Bitches love flowers.
#3 - teranin (01/13/2014) [-]
Betrayal happens to everyone, it doesn't say anything negative about your intelligence. You're gonna have a rough time of it, no doubt about that. Mind your responsibilities, and if the hurt gets too bad don't try too hard to tough it out, talking to someone really does help.
#4 to #3 - stalini (01/13/2014) [-]
>Betrayal happens to everyone

No, it does not
User avatar #5 to #4 - teranin (01/13/2014) [-]
just because it hasn't happened to you yet, doesn't mean it won't.

I've never met a single person over the age of 25 that has not experienced a betrayal in some form in their life.

#15 to #5 - stalini (01/14/2014) [-]
Does not mean it will either.
User avatar #16 to #15 - teranin (01/14/2014) [-]
Cool, glass is half full. Keep believing.
#17 to #16 - stalini (01/14/2014) [-]
I'm talking about facts here.
Stop pulling statistics out of your arse.
User avatar #19 to #17 - teranin (01/14/2014) [-]
(hint, that means neither is a fact and we are arguing opinion)
User avatar #18 to #17 - teranin (01/14/2014) [-]
did I mention a statistic? I stated what I see as fact, you stated what you see as fact. Neither can be proven.
#20 to #18 - stalini (01/14/2014) [-]
My "opinion" is true unless you prove otherwise.

You stated betrayal happens to everyone, so unless you can prove it, you are wrong.
#21 to #20 - teranin (01/14/2014) [-]
So Stalini, you've never had anyone betray you, in any way, at any time, throughout your life? No betrayal of trust? None whatsoever? You're over the age of 25? You are the only example present.

Remember, just because you apply a burden of proof to my opinion, that does not mean that it is indeed fact, any more than your assertion of it's untruth becomes fact merely by my assertion being unproven.

We are dealing in opinions. Perhaps you thought I meant "all people get cheated on?" That was never what I said. I said "Betrayal happens to everyone". I did not specify a depth of betrayal, merely that it occurs to every human. If you have never had anyone break your trust, ever, in your life, then you lead a charmed existence beyond reason but you do disprove my assertion, so feel free to happily take that with you until the day you receive your allotted betrayal.
#22 to #21 - stalini (01/14/2014) [-]
actually, at first I was talking about betrayal of your girlfriend/boyfriend and I thought you responded with the same, but then you said you were talking about ANY kind of betrayal, which changed everything. I think you did that because you realized you were wrong at first
User avatar #23 to #22 - teranin (01/14/2014) [-]
No, it was what I had meant, otherwise I would have worded it differently off the get.

I'm with you 100% that not every person gets cheated on, though.
#24 to #23 - stalini (01/14/2014) [-]
well, then we had some misunderstanding at first.

User avatar #25 to #24 - teranin (01/14/2014) [-]
Happens, after all the content is about being cheated on.
#26 to #25 - stalini (01/14/2014) [-]
#27 to #26 - teranin (01/14/2014) [-]
Couldn't find a handshake gif, have a Starfire shake gif.
Couldn't find a handshake gif, have a Starfire shake gif.
#28 to #27 - stalini (01/14/2014) [-]
well, I guess that will do too, comrade Teranin.

User avatar #2 - evrytim (01/13/2014) [-]
One of the hardest hurts is from someone you love. Been there and thought I'd never get over it. Give it some time, and you'll come to realize that it wasn't meant to be, and that she was the one who gave up, and not you.

User avatar #1 - yonyon (01/13/2014) [-]
You'll get through, man. FJ's here for you.
User avatar #9 - suitandtie ONLINE (01/13/2014) [-]
I'm appreciating the kind words from people(even a couple private messages).

The thing is, I don't want her to be just a memory. I put so much into this relationship, and for the first time in way too long, I let myself be emotionally vulnerable. I don't want the last almost 2 years to mean nothing.
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