Um... NOPE. Ml' you hear your girl arguing with her mother And she yells "whatever I can go live my marl". AhAHAH! No you don't. nonononono
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#2 - worldatarms (07/31/2014) [-]
AhAHAH!   
No you don't.
AhAHAH!
No you don't.
User avatar #77 to #2 - baykhal (08/01/2014) [-]
FJ never fails to amaze me
#1 - woodlandcritters (07/31/2014) [-]
"What ever I can live with my man"
#5 - spidurman (07/31/2014) [-]
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#15 to #5 - endospore (08/01/2014) [-]
Seeing comment #2 makes me want to see this gif stabilized on Stewie's head.
User avatar #22 to #15 - vissova (08/01/2014) [-]
While slowly zooming in.
#102 to #15 - rdobet (08/02/2014) [-]
Thinking of that reminds me of this.
Thinking of that reminds me of this.
#7 - guu (07/31/2014) [-]
Then when she comes out smiling at you and saying let's bail mfw
Then when she comes out smiling at you and saying let's bail mfw
#8 - kassdesu (08/01/2014) [-]
Reminds me of one girl I dated.
>was planning to break up with her, so I go to her house
>her parents are there so I decide to hold off on the break up
>parents begin to argue with daughter for not having a job
>she yells at her parents "I don't need a job when I have kassdesu here! we're gonna live a way better life than you two old ***** will ever have!"
>mfw
#74 to #8 - fukkentyranitar (08/01/2014) [-]
Continue....
#85 to #8 - poptheyui (08/01/2014) [-]
since everyone is asking you what happened, I would like to waste you and everyone's time by asking, what is your favorite power ranger?
User avatar #93 to #85 - kassdesu (08/01/2014) [-]
WHITE POWER ranger
#99 to #93 - Rascal (08/01/2014) [-]
proud of you
User avatar #41 to #8 - pictureperfectt (08/01/2014) [-]
How'd ya let her go, dude?

I'd like to see a greentext beginning to end man
#36 to #8 - hazardpay (08/01/2014) [-]
dude you cant leave us hanging
#20 to #8 - theincrediblemrk (08/01/2014) [-]
I'm with the other dudes, what happened next?
User avatar #9 to #8 - kristovsky (08/01/2014) [-]
so....how'd it turn out?
#10 to #9 - crazyolitis (08/01/2014) [-]
Yeah, kassdesu. We want to know. Please?
Yeah, kassdesu. We want to know. Please?
User avatar #16 to #10 - joshkroger (08/01/2014) [-]
They get married in September
User avatar #92 to #9 - kassdesu (08/01/2014) [-]
Since everyone wants to know, I really didn't expect everyone to be so interested.
>as soon as girl says that I immediately think I'm in too ******* deep
>mother tells her daughter "you're gonna end up on the streets with this loser!"
>think that now is my chance to try and get out
>tell mom, "is that what you've always thought of me? a ******* loser?"
>she says "of course it is! you work at a grocery store for ***** sake!"
>part time job to pay for school lol
>use the mother's bitchiness as an excuse and say, "babe, I can't take your family anymore! as long as you're related to those pieces of **** , we can't be together!!"
>immediately take off through the door and sprint to my car
>get home, block her number, and pray to god she doesn't come over to my place
For about a week she came to my apartment over and over trying to get me to come out but I'd hermit inside and hope for the best, after that she must of gotten the hint it was all a clever ruse and decided to **** off
#100 to #92 - hueman (08/01/2014) [-]
Dayum, son
Dayum, son
User avatar #17 to #8 - assassindash (08/01/2014) [-]
It must have been really bad since you're not replying to the questions.
#18 to #8 - hueman (08/01/2014) [-]
What happens next, grandpa?
What happens next, grandpa?
#21 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Gather around mother 			*******		. It's story time.    
>be in love with best friend for 7 years   
>almost became a couple multiple times, things just kept getting in the way   
>confess feelings   
>she tells me she feels the same but that she can't be in a relationship   
>eventually realize we are only ever going to be friends   
>feelings slowly start to match the reality I'm faced with   
>give up on her in a romantic sense   
>start developing feelings for another girl   
>best friend texts me while I'm at a bar with the other girl   
>"hey, I've been thinking, lets live together "    
>don't want to discuss something so serious while drinking   
>tell her "I'm actually at a bar right now, can we talk about this later?"   
>she tells me she could use a drink herself   
>"then come join us!" *send* ... the 			****		 did I just send!?!?!   
>both girls know each other, and best friend knows I've been hanging out with other a lot   
>still asks "US?"   
>turn phone off   
>couple days pass other girl and I are just getting closer and closer   
>best friend asks about living together again   
>on a whim agree   
>best friend starts sending messages that imply interest in me   
MFW my heart and my head are at war over the best two things that ever happened to me
Gather around mother ******* . It's story time.
>be in love with best friend for 7 years
>almost became a couple multiple times, things just kept getting in the way
>confess feelings
>she tells me she feels the same but that she can't be in a relationship
>eventually realize we are only ever going to be friends
>feelings slowly start to match the reality I'm faced with
>give up on her in a romantic sense
>start developing feelings for another girl
>best friend texts me while I'm at a bar with the other girl
>"hey, I've been thinking, lets live together "
>don't want to discuss something so serious while drinking
>tell her "I'm actually at a bar right now, can we talk about this later?"
>she tells me she could use a drink herself
>"then come join us!" *send* ... the **** did I just send!?!?!
>both girls know each other, and best friend knows I've been hanging out with other a lot
>still asks "US?"
>turn phone off
>couple days pass other girl and I are just getting closer and closer
>best friend asks about living together again
>on a whim agree
>best friend starts sending messages that imply interest in me
MFW my heart and my head are at war over the best two things that ever happened to me
#28 to #21 - crankypantsmcgruff (08/01/2014) [-]
Dude your best friend seems a bit unstable
User avatar #32 to #28 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
You picked up on that just from this short blurb? Yeah.. Once I was able to remove my love goggles I noticed that as well, her actions and motives only make sense to her..
#46 to #32 - crankypantsmcgruff (08/01/2014) [-]
If you want my opinion, I'd say move in with her as friends if you want, but don't pursue her romantically, and make it clear that you've moved on. People like that aren't worth it - if you want to make her happy and help her through life, then be her friend. But for a relationship you need someone who is an equal, so that each of you can understand and help each other.

IMO: People like that almost have a tendency to take control of your life, you may find yourself being crippled by her, constantly in a more-than-friends but not quite together situation which only causes you stress. It may be exactly what she wants, but you cannot give someone who is a bit 'out there' everything they want, it just costs you too much.

tl;dr - Not worth going with Best friend

Source: Personal Experience
#80 to #46 - Rascal (08/01/2014) [-]
are you nuts? move in just as friends? really?
The only reason this trick is asking to move in with him is so she can save a few bucks on the damn rent. If he asks her to be "just friend" she'll have it ******* made in the shade. No rent and not having to put out....
He needs to live alone until HE decides who the **** moves in, not just some chick that asked.
#86 to #80 - crankypantsmcgruff (08/01/2014) [-]
umm dude where did he say she wouldn't be paying? you live in the hood or some **** ?
#88 to #86 - xgolgothax (08/01/2014) [-]
You honestly think a girl that deliberately manipulates a guy who has confessed feelings for her in the past has any intention of paying for anything? She asked to move in before she even kissed him. She's playing this guy.

And no, i live in a very nice neighborhood. But wtf does my/anyone's socioeconomic status have to do with their willingness to manipulate and mistreat people?
#95 to #88 - crankypantsmcgruff (08/01/2014) [-]
"This trick" " ******* made in the shade" "having to put out"

And you just expect someone to **** you if you move in with them? what a ******* grub. You're as sexist as any feminazi.

They've been best friends for ages, I'm sorry your ex cheated on you or whatever but don't express that by being an idiot
#97 to #95 - xgolgothax (08/01/2014) [-]
I understood her request to be that they live together as a couple, and in that context yes,I would expect them to sleep together.
My point is that moving in is an awful big !! first !! Step for any relationship. The virtuous tend to get married first, secular couples tend to have sex first.
I think he 's being naive.
User avatar #91 to #88 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
She's going to be paying rent. She doesn't where she currently is, but we already agreed to split it 50 50 when we get our place.
#96 to #91 - xgolgothax (08/01/2014) [-]
Would her current residence just happen to be her parent's house or current boyfriend's place?
Moving in together is an awful big [u]first[/u] step in a relationship.
If you want this girl to have any respect for you , say no .
User avatar #48 to #46 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
This makes so much sense. I'm going to do this, at least for now. It gives me a clear path.
#82 to #48 - xgolgothax (08/01/2014) [-]
NO NO NO.
She's using you man. You dont move in BEFORE you have sex. The only possible outcome of you asking her to move in "as friends" is her gleefully sucking you dry of all your monies, you resenting her for it, and her bringing her *********** over to dangle them in your face.
You tell her the same **** she told you when you confessed your feelings. And stand your ground.
#47 to #32 - crankypantsmcgruff (08/01/2014) [-]
Saw another comment. Same thing happened to my current gf, it's very hard being their emotional support. You almost NEED someone else so that you can help them as much as you can.

Verdict: >Go with new girl >support best friend and still make her happy > get support from new girl when you need it
User avatar #51 to #47 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Oddly, it has been *kind of* working that way the past week. Making that official sounds good.
#52 to #51 - crankypantsmcgruff (08/01/2014) [-]
Hopefully the new girl understands the situation, Protip: find a bro that can move in with you and best friend.

Hope everything goes well, sorry for my assertive comments, this struck a bit too close to home for me
User avatar #54 to #52 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Nah, I get it man, the best teacher is experience, and clearly you have. Also, I'm curious, what benefit would having a bro join us have? (I was contemplating that already to kind of act as a buffer, but I want to know what your reasoning is)
#56 to #54 - crankypantsmcgruff (08/01/2014) [-]
There's a couple reasons:
>Just in case best friend does something crazy...can act as a witness (like claims you did something to her or whatever).
>Also a bro would make things easier for 'new girl' to take rather than you moving in with just best friend
>Having another person in the house prevents best friend from monopolizing you
>Makes the entire thing less serious and means if you want to no longer live with best friend it hurts her less when you move out.

Effectively the dynamic within the house is completely different if there's 3 of you as opposed to just 2 of you.
User avatar #60 to #56 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Very true, I'll definitely take that into account
User avatar #42 to #21 - thesupervillian (08/01/2014) [-]
Why is it she didn't want to be with you the first time m8? All i'm saying is that the other check is probably better for you since your best friend seems to be a little odd, or at least it does seem like that from what can be gathered in the short story there.
User avatar #44 to #42 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
She was raped, so for a loooong time she didn't want anything to do with any males, I was basically the sole exception and even that was rather distant.
User avatar #50 to #44 - thesupervillian (08/01/2014) [-]
Damn dude, to be honest I wasn't entirely expecting that. Though such a thing does seem to happen. Anyhow, that is a pretty ******* good reason. At such a point this seems like you should really just be making the choice on which girl you think you are happier with. You certainly shouldn't just be alone though, so choose. Do you have any idea which one you would prefer? If not I demand you make a list for both of them on reasons you like and dislike them and evaluate which one you would rather be with by using said list. Science can be a pretty ******* good solution in this matter.
User avatar #53 to #50 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Honestly, I think I'd be happier with the other girl. But despite kind of losing the in love factor, I still love my best friend, and in not so plain of terms, she's basically said I'm the only one that has a possibility of making her happy. It's almost worth it just to make her as happy as she can be.
User avatar #55 to #53 - thesupervillian (08/01/2014) [-]
Don't let her saying that affect your decision. You should choose which one YOU feel will make you happier well at the same time being able to make them just as happy. Aside from that, both girls will without a doubt probably find someone else as time goes on. Chances your best friend will get over the trauma and reach out to other guys to try and start a relationship if you don't choose her. She just has to heal mentally. You being a friend can help with that. So if you feel like a romantic relationship won't benefit you as well, then don't do it, Choose the other chick if that is the case. But since you and your best friend have history, you may let your feelings get in the way of choosing what may be best for you, and it is understandable if you do. But just remember, both of them are humans, so they both would most likely need signs from you to continue chasing after you. If you stop showing the signs they may give you up. So it is honestly up to you right now. This is literally something that you will have to decide by using everything that we, the people of FJ, may not know to decide. It is your life and this decision can only be swayed by us, not truly decided. So pick who ya want m8. I doubt any of us would even think less of you if you chose a someone we thought was a bad choice.
User avatar #58 to #55 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Yeah, the general consensus does seem to be DON'T DO IT in regards to my best friend.
User avatar #64 to #58 - thesupervillian (08/01/2014) [-]
I know m8. The community will tend to be a one track type of mind. I asked for help involving my GF (Cheated on me twice now, but I'm still with her. Only took a week long brake once to sort things out in my brain) and they always said to leave her. But I personally just couldn't do it. I disagree with my GF every now and then but I stick with her. I don't care if she cheats on me, both times aren't exactly that bad either. The second may not of even been as bad as it sounded originally. But I stay with her regardless. It was my decision, and as much as I wanted to do as the FJ community (Hell, even my closest friends) suggested, I didn't. All because I still love my GF, and find myself able to work things out with her. I got into the relationship knowing that I would force it to work even if she ****** up a bit. She does indeed love me and we both make each others live special. Thats all that matters to me. So despite what people say here, your best friend may be better for you. So go with your heart man, and don't ever doubt your decision. Stay strong and true. Even if you are wrong, its life, **** happens and thats how it goes. You can always pick yourself up off the ground and start again, no matter what.

This replies get kind of long and I really hate having long replies in comment sections of content. If you don't want to read all of that i'm just basically saying that the people of FJ tend to do that, but it shouldn't truly influence your decision.
User avatar #67 to #64 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
I understand. Yeah I definitely need to think some more.
User avatar #69 to #67 - thesupervillian (08/01/2014) [-]
Alright. I hope the community was able to give you the help you may or may not have needed and I also hope that everything works out for the best. Cheers~
#70 to #69 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
I'll drink to that. Cheers.
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#79 to #21 - Rascal (08/01/2014) [-]
to be more clear than my previous comment....who the **** says lets live together before they say lets **** ?
She's using you to save money on rent bro. Ditch her ass.
User avatar #90 to #79 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
I would agree with you, but she doesn't have rent as is, she will when she moves in with me, she actually suggested a situation where she had to pay more.
#98 to #90 - xgolgothax (08/01/2014) [-]
The sales pitch and the reality will be vastly different. I'm guessing she's early twenties and looking to escape her parents authority or a bad boyfriend. Either way,I want you to be clear, you are not a romantic pursuit for her, you are a means to an end. Ask yourself this:if she could afford to live alone, would she have asked?
If you're determined to go through with this, and I imagine you are, get everything in writing. When she leaves it's gonna be hard to convince a judge you're not just an angry ex boyfriend instead of a roommate trying to recover unpaid rent.
#87 to #21 - nthmetal (08/01/2014) [-]
I have two girls to choose from

and I can only have one...
#78 to #21 - Rascal (08/01/2014) [-]
Neither.
The best advice any man will ever give you is this: NEVER live with a woman until you're married. Until you meet a woman you're willing to obligate yourself to some **** it takes a lawyer to get out of, stay the **** away from it.
Focus on making as much money as you can instead, and you'll enter a whole new league.
Wonder why those 9s and 10s roll with douchebag losers? Money.
To quote a great comedy about married life: You will always lose money chasing women, but you will NEVER lose women chasing money.
Pic related I think i love my wife is the name of the movie
User avatar #24 to #21 - trolltyler (08/01/2014) [-]
im sorry. Just go with your gut
User avatar #26 to #24 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Yesterday, my gut said best friend, which is why I agreed to live with her. Today its saying other girl. I won't play them though, so either I need to commit to one, or just be alone...
#31 to #26 - youlikeme (08/01/2014) [-]
either way... being best friend with a girl you love sounds like recipe for heartbreak.

btw, the reason she is showing interest in you now is because you ignored her. bitches love it when you ignore them.
User avatar #33 to #31 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
A friend of mine said that as well, which is even more of a headache.
#34 to #33 - youlikeme (08/01/2014) [-]
**youlikeme rolls 99**
Yeah man, it's a hard choice. Good luck. Also, if dubs I get to choose which one you pick
User avatar #38 to #34 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Dear **** ....
#40 to #38 - youlikeme (08/01/2014) [-]
Me baby. Me.
#45 to #33 - silenttortoise (08/01/2014) [-]
If she really feels that way, then sticking with this new girl shouldn't harm much, and if it does, it's because your "best" friend is a jealous floozy. If it is meant to be, it's meant to be.
User avatar #49 to #45 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Thank you
#83 to #31 - xgolgothax (08/01/2014) [-]
I'm reasonably certain it also has something to do with her thinking he's a sucker. This guy has confessed to her that he loves her, and now she knows she can manipulate him. If he doesnt ask for half the rent up front he's a chump.
It's a common position to be in, being a chump for someone you love is easy as **** .
Hard thing/Right thing is to admit she isnt your friend and tell her thanks but no.
#84 to #83 - youlikeme (08/01/2014) [-]
true, I forgot to take into account the pure evilness of women.
true, I forgot to take into account the pure evilness of women.
User avatar #27 to #26 - trolltyler (08/01/2014) [-]
you dont really have anything official with the other girl. She would probably understand If you decide to live with the best friend
User avatar #37 to #27 - vatra (08/01/2014) [-]
Technically there is nothing official with either. And part of the issue is that the feeling changed for best friend, maybe I'm just deluding myself.
#14 - thememegod (08/01/2014) [-]
mfw....
#72 - hardongo ONLINE (08/01/2014) [-]
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#57 - sevenxninja (08/01/2014) [-]
MFW
MFW
#12 - Rascal (08/01/2014) [-]
**anonymous rolled image** GFW
#71 to #12 - epicactual (08/01/2014) [-]
Nice roll
#68 - tehavatar (08/01/2014) [-]
mfw
mfw
#76 to #68 - shadew (08/01/2014) [-]
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#19 - slikmonkey (08/01/2014) [-]
HFW
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#81 - dontknowmeatall (08/01/2014) [-]
"Can you? Because you didn't ask..."
User avatar #30 - mondominiman (08/01/2014) [-]
I can't only be the only one who doesn't mind being single. I mean it's nice living with someone but be it friend or girlfriend it's all the same.
User avatar #73 to #30 - byobgraffpro (08/01/2014) [-]
i dont mind being single, but i would prefer being in a relationship
User avatar #101 to #73 - mondominiman (08/01/2014) [-]
I've been in a relationship before and I didn't enjoy it all that much. The only time that I enjoyed with her was when we where intimate but just being with her annoyed me greatly. I just assumed that weren't a good match. The second relationship I was in didn't last that long because it just never felt like a real relationship. It really could just be me sabotaging them because I always remember seeing friends and family act like little girls and moping and crying whenever they broke up, so I can never get close to someone for fear of feeling like that myself that way I distance myself emotionally. Same goes for pets, one of my cats of 9 years ran away the other day and I don't really care, sucks sure but what can I do.
User avatar #103 to #101 - byobgraffpro (08/03/2014) [-]
im not exactly a love guru so i cant give advice. but if thats how you feel about it, then cool
#29 - bunnyeatskitty (08/01/2014) [-]
shes joking around maybe, just let her GO with you, and if its too much or whatever you can tell her no, you should back her up if shes going through that with her mother, espesialy if her mom is like "FINE GO"
#35 to #29 - giantdad (08/01/2014) [-]
and then the whole situation was really her fault
User avatar #59 to #29 - psychadelicsnake (08/01/2014) [-]
**** I used to watch that when I was 5

I forgot the name of the show
User avatar #62 to #59 - validlikesalad (08/01/2014) [-]
Hamtaro
#63 to #62 - psychadelicsnake (08/01/2014) [-]
Why thank you.   
   
Have this gif depicting what happens when you put ping pong balls in liquid nitrogen
Why thank you.

Have this gif depicting what happens when you put ping pong balls in liquid nitrogen
#65 to #63 - lostmyaccounts (08/01/2014) [-]
it just looks like they put ping pong balls in a garbage can and they behave normally.
User avatar #66 to #65 - psychadelicsnake (08/01/2014) [-]
indeed
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