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My Tito Way

 
My Tito Way. Sometimes life isn't as hard as it is, and your perception makes it seem that way. Have some OC bruddahs.. THIS GENERATION WAS THE FIRST TO ‘BE RAI

Sometimes life isn't as hard as it is,
and your perception makes it seem that way.
Have some OC bruddahs.

THIS GENERATION WAS
THE FIRST TO ‘BE
RAISED ONLINE
Taught me that my life is just fine, and that I would have to
seek out problems to make myself feel otherwise.
hm Taught me that views don' t count, the viewers do.
Appreciate every compliment, and take criticism with a constructive
view.
Taught me that great people have humble beginnings,
and that the road to perfection is a bumpy one.
km Taught me that people don‘! always care about making the world
better, and simply want to become part of something greater. We
just want an excuse for spending time together on a common goal.
twitter Taught me that people are willing to restrict how much they speak,
in order to speak, in order to speak to more people, with fewer words.
Taught me that my generation is jarred by the technological jolt that we'
ychan experienced. They are confused, afraid of many people, and are willing to
give up their idenity just to speak with others without the consequences of
accidentlly saying something disagreeable. All due to the lack of
confidence of one' s own personality. Learn to accept what you are, and fix
it. Self prover em is to confrim yourself, hiding yourself is to run away
Watching you Taught me the Truth
Please continue to teach me with
your achievements and your failures.
want it any other way.
googily googily googily
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Submitted: 12/05/2015
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#6 - vladi (12/05/2015) [-]
Sometimes I feel like you're too philosophical and wise for your age. Still love ya for it, man. You should go live on a very high mountain and then pilgrims who made a very dangerous journey will come to you for life advice.
User avatar #39 to #6 - khansingh (12/06/2015) [-]
don't suck his dick. He's a faggot who has aspy rages and blocks people who do anything other than worship his chode. I guess *********** themed accounts gotta look out for each other, though, right?
User avatar #40 to #39 - vladi (12/06/2015) [-]
Look buddy, if there's one person here against the "popular" account circlejerk, it is me, and I have gotten my share of **** for fighting it. You know which accounts that are. As for Titto, I have only seen him saying wise things and posting about his mechs. But if you can show me evidence of him raging for not being worshipped and then blocking, I will change my view on him.
#42 to #40 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
aye thanks buddy.
I wonder what I did to make him to upset though..
he took it out on everyone in this thread and now I have to thumb everybody up to undo the unfair downthumbing.

His college finals must be getting to him too... I can't blame him.
User avatar #54 to #42 - opticmonkey (12/06/2015) [-]
You know man, when you first started doing this whole tito thing I thought you were a "muh philosophy" faggot who thinks he's wise and enlightened, and that hasn't changed.

Having said that though sometimes the things you say are on point and I respect you for at least trying to wade through fj's sometimes jaded view of things
User avatar #43 to #42 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
*so
#27 to #6 - qauron (12/06/2015) [-]
It shouldn't be a dangerous journey for that would be foolish and the opposite of wise, it should be a long and hard journey for all good things come with great effort
User avatar #28 to #27 - vladi (12/06/2015) [-]
Yes that's what I meant long and hard. But with long and hard always comes some danger, in whatever form it may be.
#4 - umbrage ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-]
**umbrage used "*roll picture*"**
**umbrage rolled image**
what funnyjunk taught me
#24 to #4 - lankyman (12/06/2015) [-]
Explanation?
Haunting **** im guessing.
User avatar #76 to #24 - synthane (12/06/2015) [-]
Looking at the folks who posted it, it seems like it was actually just a porno on the left that someone attached to an entirely unrelated picture on the right where the lady just happened to look similar. Could be mistaken, but that is what it seems like.
#8 to #4 - psychotayto (12/06/2015) [-]
That poor bastard
#5 - jamesisawesome (12/05/2015) [-]
On a website where too many people just like to complain, I'm glad Tito is here to try and help everyone get along.
#75 to #5 - anon (12/06/2015) [-]
faggot
#31 - samoaspider (12/06/2015) [-]
->Tumblr taught me there are a lot of people who get offended easily

->YouTube taught me people would do anything for views, starting with clickbait thumbnails with tits and ending with shocking themselves / hurting themselves. (basically 1000 views = 1 dollar)

->Facebook taught us we hate some of our friends

->4chan taught us to question everything and be cynical. Also taught if you give a man a mask, he'll call you a ****** .
User avatar #33 to #31 - envinite (12/06/2015) [-]
You're the reason why they called it 'Internet Hate Machine'.
User avatar #69 to #33 - manza (12/06/2015) [-]
It will always be a hate machine till the end of time.
User avatar #85 to #33 - herbolifee (12/06/2015) [-]
Pfft, it barely is nowadays.
#3 - ravepen (12/05/2015) [-]
bless this one too
#20 - arpheus (12/06/2015) [-]
Tito FTW
User avatar #18 - severepwner (12/06/2015) [-]
Sorry Tito, but I think everyone has a reason not to be openly casually racist. Considering the slightest offense towards Blacks, Islamic refugees, homosexuals, etc. are met with immediate prejudice (ironically). Also people are definitely not a fan of challenging social norms, ever.

Tito sometimes I want to tell people what they don't want to hear, because they must. But my opinion is not worth becoming an outcast over. Anonymity is the most precious invention since freedom of speech.
User avatar #83 to #18 - rapterjesus (12/06/2015) [-]
Anonymity can be a cop-out though. Rather that find ways to tell people what they don't want to hear in a way they can handle, people go shout bluntly into the echo chamber, and no one comes out the wiser.
#19 to #18 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
Self-improvement also means improving one's own ability to judge which 'audience' is appropriate for what you have to say. As a man with aspergers, I had to learn this manually through many great screwups.
You are doing just fine.
User avatar #21 to #19 - severepwner (12/06/2015) [-]
If I can't tell them truth it's pointless. The only appropriate audience would just end up being the choir most of the time.

And the audiences that need to hear it have predictable reactions. I don't want to be resented for telling the truth, but I don't want to go on without telling the truth either.
#22 to #21 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
As the ancient hawaiians used to say;

"Some truths are better witnessed than told."

If what you say is true, they will inevitably come across its reality.
User avatar #23 to #22 - severepwner (12/06/2015) [-]
It's not just about knowing truth. Knowing truth is the prior step into going the right way.

If we find out truth by going the wrong way, that it's already too late and our fates our sealed. We must not take our maps and wisdom for granted. And as I always say, the best decisions are those that can be reversed, and most decisions involving knowing the truth, are not reversible decisions.
#44 to #19 - anon (12/06/2015) [-]
Knew it.
User avatar #45 to #44 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
You should be more surprised about finding someone normal on FJ
User avatar #63 to #45 - majormoron (12/06/2015) [-]
This is truth.
#36 - handless (12/06/2015) [-]
aloha to that
User avatar #84 to #36 - rapterjesus (12/06/2015) [-]
******* Hawaiian Dicking man, that brings back memories.
User avatar #35 - skeletorexplains ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
Tumber: Didn't do it
Youtube: There's always going to be one idiot saying "First" or one tryhard video.
Deviantart: A good source of character designs
Facebook: Absolutely pointless.
twitter: Didn't do it
4chan: Wouldn't catch me dead on

10/10 tho
#17 - therealtjthemedic (12/06/2015) [-]
Y'know man...I think... it's gonna be alright.
We're all gonna make it.
It's good to see someone with a positive outlook here.
User avatar #64 to #17 - majormoron (12/06/2015) [-]
There are two things about life that you should take heart in and make you have hope.

1. Life will always find a way to keep going, no matter what.

2. Life can ALWAYS be worse. There is no bottom of how bad things can be, so then be happy that its only as bad as you currently have it, if that makes sense.

I couldnt find the right words for the second point, so sorry if that doesn't sound great.
User avatar #67 to #64 - therealtjthemedic (12/06/2015) [-]
Yeah, that second point has kept me going a lot of times in my life. No money, middle of winter, scraping rent, thinking 'this is ***** , then realizing ' **** , it could be worse, stop bitching'.
User avatar #48 - glitchduck (12/06/2015) [-]
FJ taught me that i can stay on my computer all day and not eat
User avatar #30 - sequel (12/06/2015) [-]
The internet is for porn [HD] [SUBTITLED] Tumblr taught me there is good OC porn
YouTube taught me there are better sites to watch porn (I was like 12)
Deviantart taught me there are one-of-a-kind porn for my sickest fetishes within the pile of filth.
Facebook taught me I can see some nice pictures of chicks I know.
Twitter taught me I can follow my favorite porn artists.
4chan taught me there is a community that gathers good porn from all over the web.. whether I like it or not.

I wouldn't want it any other way.
#46 - irishjohnny (12/06/2015) [-]
"My life is just fine. I would have to seek out problems to make myself feel otherwise."
#65 - Hawke (12/06/2015) [-]
GIF
The opinions of a random avatarfagging theme account faggot are very important
User avatar #34 - cleateater (12/06/2015) [-]
And Tito taught me that being a conceited cunt on a cancerous website makes you cool


fgt
#37 to #34 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
That's it, to the volcano with you.
#59 - doublepzk (12/06/2015) [-]
Hey totallytito, I can't really word it how I want without just sounding like a fanboy, but I love your stuff. It's clear in your responses that you have thought stuff through and really figured out how you feel about it, but that you also recognize the need to grow and learn everyday. I hope to be more like you when I grow up even more, I've come far and done a lot of really careful, and sometimes very rough, introspective thought, but I am still young, 19, and have a lot to learn and experience.

Also, do you have any movie or show recommendations? I don't know why but I feel like you may have some interesting stuff to recommend, and I need something to watch/listen-to that is genuinely interesting, preferably one that leaves me thinking (though hopefully in not a depressing way, kind of had a rough few months recently).

Anyways, I hope you see this comment, reply if you feel so inclined, but I like your stuff and keep it up. You do a great job at being a real person and not just basking in the glory of a known themed account.
#68 to #59 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
Truthfully I don't really need to watch anything 'profound'.
I watch regular old anime just like you.

One Punch Man and Gundam Iron Blooded Orphans
are my top two favorite shows while I wait for Steven Universe to come back.

I just have anxiety issues that only bother me before I fall asleep.
Almost every day my mind confronts me with the reality of my own mortality, which causes me to become afraid and rethink my values. I somehow want to either answer this problem, or at least learn to accept it. Deep down I am also afraid that if I accept it, I may become reckless with my life. So almost every night, my own death remains my #1 priority fear.

My mind tries to mess with me by either causing twitches near my heart, giving me false sensations of illness, or causing me to feel as if there isn't enough oxygen. Nowadays, it's less about false sensations, but more about being given vivid images of what it might feel like to die. I currently go to therapy, but nothing works. In a way, it benefits me.

The way this affects my lifestyle is by desensitizing me to other dangers and stressors.
When dying is your biggest and real danger, suddenly many of life's problems and dangers seem trivial by comparison. A lot of political arguments and issues seem to basic in comparison to the bigger picture.

It sometimes bothers me that we choose to work with governments that follow a strict set of rules, and avoid using concepts and ideas from other government systems just for the sake of maintaining "integrity". There is nothing wrong with a democratic government trying out socialist leadership strategies if it means balancing the economy.Yet people oppose it because "hitler".

Since I am not a spiritualist or a religious believer, i have nothing but myself and sometimes my girlfriend for consolation with these mortality issues. Although I am in perfect health, I am cautious with my life decisions, and I think them all the way through.

The thing is... the fear of death has made me embrace life all the more, without having to rely on spiritualism or psychedelic nonsense to appreciate it. Thanks to that, i can look at things with an outsider perspective. But hey, I still have my biases here and there.

I don't really have 'wisdom', I'm just desensitized to smaller stressors because I'm afraid of losing everyone and everything someday.
#79 to #68 - doublepzk (12/06/2015) [-]
I didn't mean to assume you watched only philosophical stuff, I just find that people who are more grounded tend to recommend stuff I will enjoy more. Not sure why, just a common theme.

As for the "fun stuff." I haven't had anxiety issues for some time, but the presence of mortality in my mind has existed for the past two years. About mid October of 2013 (Holy crap, it was that long ago?) I had my first full existential crisis. Like it just hit me while I was letting my mind idle before falling asleep, I then couldn't fall asleep until a few hours later after some truly depressing thoughts.

Life went on like that, every night as the sun set and everyone settled I would be left in my room alone and realizing the bleak end of life, leaving myself to soon realize that my ultimate fear was death.

I eventually was able to lie to myself about mortality to get by, I still had school and needed a break from it all. Since then I have been slowly working to reacquaint myself with the idea, and it's rough.

When I hear all this politics crap, war and everything it just bothers me how trivialized human life seems to be. Mass shootings are actually rather rare, but I hear of something like them every month, or some terrorist crap. With Russia making moves and some tensions seeming to build between countries people have started to joke about war and stuff. While I know most people don't actually want war I can't even convince myself to laugh it off.

When the days come to an end I find that I would sacrifice a lot to preserve my health and life, and much like you I find that so much of what people focus on is trivial.

I broke my elbow and had to get three screws in it during surgery 10 weeks ago, that left me in my room and really brought me down to earth. I had never been one to assume I was invincible at my age, but it really made me appreciate what I have. My medical bills would have kicked me out of college and destroyed the next decade of my life (at least), if I didn't have my families health insurance.

These days I would rather enjoy the time I have in whatever way makes me happy, and in ways that will keep me happy in the long-term. I don't regret my actions in my past because they got me where I am today, the good and the bad.

I finally have people who are close to me outside of my family, but both of them I unfortunately only know online. I also don't practice a religion. I would love to have a religion, but I am logical and pragmatic to my core and can't support the ones I know of today. So with no religion and no close physical relationships (meaning friends or partners that I could speak to through more than text), I end rather alone during these late nights.

Finals draw to an end this week, and I will get to go home and relax free of school, but with that will come more idle time to myself.

I sort of rambled there, no clear path, but I can relate to some of your experiences. I love what I have and the thought of one day losing my consciousness is the ultimate fear I have.

To me, good wisdom isn't answering the hard questions, it's inspiring people to think for themselves and as an individual, to really look at what drives them, their passions and their fears. I know what makes me tick, and I am a better person because of it, but I also am more afraid knowing the truth and sometimes I wish I could go back to being ignorant, even if it was just for a day or an hour.
#80 to #79 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
Wow.
Our thoughts are completely identical.


Now that's something I don't see every day.
#81 to #80 - doublepzk (12/06/2015) [-]
Yeah, I was a bit surprised to see how death impacted you and realized that I have been experiencing the same things. I figure we just gotta keep living and loving what we have, cause there ain't much else beyond that.

You don't realize what you have until it's gone, and so on... so I figure I will make sure to appreciate all I have, sounds like you do the same.
User avatar #82 to #81 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
Yep, pretty much.
User avatar #29 - gittons (12/06/2015) [-]
holy **** somebody who does not spew pure depression in every word.
this is new.
#77 - anon (12/06/2015) [-]
Tito, I hate you, I hate your face, I hate your posts and your comments, I hate your pictures

You're very existence causes me to feel ill and despise the world even more.

I hope you're happy.
#78 to #77 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
Anon, I like you, i like your face, I like your posts and comments, I like your pictures.

Your very existence causes me to feel good and enjoy the world even more.

I hope you're happy.
User avatar #90 to #78 - cheastnut (12/06/2015) [-]
he can't be happy you didn't feed the troll
User avatar #73 - superflyingcookie (12/06/2015) [-]
Jesus when is this cringefest going to stop
#74 to #73 - totallytito [OP]ONLINE (12/06/2015) [-]
When the tides of the ocean cease to be
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