I'm sorry I left you home with Daughter and son, but i can't seem to remember any of your names.
I am at town right now and after that i will go to the shopping store.
More likely because people wouldn't sign a note to their spouse as "wife" or "husband". They would use their real names, or more likely, not sign it at all, because spouses should be able to recognize each other's handwriting.
My parents and grandparents write love notes to each other every once in a while. They generally do use the term husband/wife because it's a term of endearment. You know, a reminder that they chose each other and they're in this together. But my family's pretty weird so that could be a poor standard to judge by.
Someone very wise once told me;
Stop looking for a girlfriend, the week after you're ready for one they'll find you.
I have to admit, keeping that idea in my mind has made my life a good bit better
The minute you accept your flaws and stop demonizing or idolizing other people.
Honestly, I wasn't ready until I was in my mid twenties, some people just need more time to accept themselves.
You'll be ready as soon as you agree with the opinions of all the people that like you, for whatever reason.
i dont demonize or idolize anyone other than, well, my vision of me. and i don't think i'll ever accept my flaws because i want to improve myself so much. and i don't want to pursue a woman, because i feel like that is just pursuing peoples approval. the only approval i need is my own.
I know the feeling. The only time I felt good enough was when I was with my ex and that's a hard feeling to recreate alone. I compare myself to perfection which I will never live up to so I tend to have low self esteem. Seems we both need to be real with ourselves and understand that we are plenty rad. Think about it, even if we weren't amazing for the vast majority, you would be amazing to that girl that is right for you. She wants what you are so be more of that.
perfect, then don't accept your flaws; knowing that about yourself is half the battle. Start seeing yourself for the skills that you're proud of, or that people have complimented you on. If you're good at what you do, whatever that is, people will want to be around you, girls will want to be around you, and eventually someone will value you more than you value yourself.
except i don't feel like i can excel at what i want to do. i don't have the body to be a heavy lifter kind of person, i'm not artistically talented, or intellectually talented. really the only thing i do have that i personally admire is my unflinching desire to excel despite my limitations. and i don't even want that, because it makes me feel like a martyr. and it is the very thing that hurts me the most.
what things? im trying to be real. im exceedingly skinny, i take all my jokes from tumblr and the internet, and i didnt get any kind of full ride because i wasn't smart enough.
protect the weak, protect those i care about, have power to do so, and don't make mistakes. those are my goals. im interested in life so that in the next one im better off. idk really.
trying to not make mistakes is the biggest mistake you'll ever make, i've been there. Playing it wild and loose every once in a while is the best way to improve yourself and ensure that future mistakes are minor. Also, I don't necessarily believe in reincarnation of any sort, including afterlife, but I would say, if you aren't invested in the life you have now and treat it like it's precious, do you really feel like you'll deserve a better one next time?
the people who are successful didn't make mistakes, or they hid them away. since im crap at lying ill instead try and not make mistakes. to be honest, i believe in redemption and reincarnation alot. sometimes i just feel like im older and i should be the "dying" age already, like im already middle aged. its weird how i dont' really feel alot of motivation because, idk i already did it? and i know playing it fast and loose is nice, but id rather not lose my opportunity to make the world better?
for explanation, if i/you/any person can't do the following, they are useless. i don't want to lose an opportunity to do any of these.
protect the weak
lead and make wise decisions
bring a smile to the unhappy
work hard to support others and i'm afraid i can't do any of these.
Making mistakes is the best thing that can happen to you, not only can you learn from it but others can as well. And if people learn from you are you not making the world better in some small way?
making mistakes is how i hurt others. ill lost control, ill not be able to help others, ill make someone hate me.....i don't want to learn from these mistakes how to not make them, i want to avoid making them so others don't suffer.
I used to think the same thing of myself, and sometimes I still do. I can't give you advice on how to chance your mind about yourself, you have to do that yourself, but i can tell you this; nothing helps more than surrounding yourself with people that like you.
a lot of people fam
it's endearing, especially newlyweds.
because "THATS MY WIFE" is so much better than "thats my girlfriend" and better than "thats jen"
It's a silly term of endearment used in these cases to convey humour and affection, but not necessarily used when speaking to each other or at all in public. What's so confusing?
You think that ****** real? Who in the **** writes "husband" and "wife"? According to the mat on the floor, this is probably a lonely furry pretending he has a lovely and randome XD catwife. And then posts it on internet to gather his 15 seconds of fame.
19 and haven't had it my whole life. Mostly some minor crushes but faded as fast as they came. I really feel the desire to have a gf now, like REALLY, but there are barely any girls that I know and they aren't even that close.
Mfw I can't love real things without fearing the lost of them and end up resorting to distancing myself from everything so the pain isn't able to happen or isn't that strong, yesterday I watched koishi's heart throbbing adventure and I'm super depressed by it and it doesn't help they haven't finished it so now my brain can't complete its thoughts on it and I keep thinking about it