So get this FJ.....I'm in love with a girl I can't have. She is perfect in every way. Head to toe beautiful, and so nice too. Really really amazing likes all the same stuff I do, never had an argument or got into a fight that was serious. Always always brings a smile to my face. But for reasons unknown to me she only goes after military guys. (She is in the military herself so...you know kind of get it but kinda don't.) I understand what problems a military life entails. The kind of strain it puts on relationships and what kinda **** you put up with. My dad has only retired from the military a few years ago. So I get that part of the lifestyle. I'm also not like 300 pounds or whatever. I work out I keep my hair short and I shave daily so I look like a military man in Civy clothing. I just don't get it....what is it I'm missing?