Cycle Of Abuse
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DoctorDinosaur (11/28/2013) [+] (6 replies)
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If you only had one outfit to wear for your entire life, you'd be abusive too.
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squidwardsuckseggs (11/28/2013) [-] Is it because of cinnamony swirls in every b....................
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Pyromie (11/28/2013) [-] You ** ************ **, How many times do I have to tell you, NO SITTING DOWN UNTIL THE MUSIC STOPS!
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lvc (11/28/2013) [-] Not having authority over your kids as a parent makes them spoiled brats that mostly end up weak and dependent when grown up. Hitting your kids when necessary is a one thing, abuse is another.
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crazan ONLINE (11/28/2013) [-] **** like this is ridiculous, I hate it when people are saying they beat their kids because their parents beat them. Wouldn't you make sure not to beat your children so they wouldn't go through the same pain you did? I have no sympathy for people like that.
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sheepysquirrel (11/28/2013) [-] My dad was beat with like bats and fists and **** by his mom (seriously, like broken bones bad) so the worst he did was spank us. But there were times when I feel he should have whooped my ass with a belt. At a certain age the spanking didn't really hurt anymore so me and my brother got smarter mouths.
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anon (11/28/2013) [-]
I was beat growing up and it hasn't affected how I treat children at all (at least not like this). I will still gently smack them if they're doing something wrong, but I would never purposely hurt them in any other fashion. People using their childhoods as an excuse to treat other people badly are just pathetic.
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daentraya (11/28/2013) [-] Severe child abuse can **** up a kids moral and empathy. For example, there were these two siblings who were adopted by a loving family. The little girl was extremely violent towards her little brother. Had she grown up without any help for this, how would you expect her to be anything but violent?
As some has said; you don't know how psychology works. Like, seriously, that little girl could've grown up as a terrible and abusive person, and none of it would be her fault. It wasnt her decision. She deserves both pity and sympathy, together with the regular 'she is a terrible person, and i hate her'
As some has said; you don't know how psychology works. Like, seriously, that little girl could've grown up as a terrible and abusive person, and none of it would be her fault. It wasnt her decision. She deserves both pity and sympathy, together with the regular 'she is a terrible person, and i hate her'
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thewilder (11/28/2013) [-] Depends on the kind of person you are I guess. My father's father was a monster and my father grew into one as well. Drinking, mental abuse, physical abuse, drugs, you name it. And my mother's father was also a drinker and agressor and her brother is now having issues with police, because he was choking his wife. Damn my genes are awesome.
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anon (11/28/2013) [-]
When people don't learn how to deal with conflict in an acceptable way from their parents, then they're much more likely to resort to the same unacceptable methods. It's easy to take the social skills you've learned from your parents for granted, but some people have almost no social skills when it comes to dealing with conflict.
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zaggystirdust (11/28/2013) [-] that is true
my dad was hit as a child yet never hit me or my brother
the only thing that affected him was that he wants to spend as much time with us to make sure we have the experience he never had
my dad was hit as a child yet never hit me or my brother
the only thing that affected him was that he wants to spend as much time with us to make sure we have the experience he never had
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unusualember (11/28/2013) [-] The problem is you slowly work into it, so slowly that you yourself are hardly even aware of it. The thoughts build, turn to little actions, those turn into bigger actions, and before you know it you just beat your wife up.
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klauszen (11/28/2013) [-] I think overprotective child abuse laws are harmful. We are rising unsensitive, whimsical, egomaniac children that will turn in materialistic and self-centered bastards. Sometimes pain -induced by the parents by JUSTIFIED, PROPORTIONAL and EXPLAINED force- can build spirituality and moral streight.
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romneykun (11/28/2013) [-] The laws don't really stop spanking, or yelling, which is all I got. BUT, you have to take into consideration that there are better ways to discipline a child. A lot of parents are just piss poor **** when it comes to being a parent, and that makes more piss poor children who make piss poor parents when the time comes.
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turdmurpson (11/28/2013) [-] dude it has happened to a lot of us. stop acting like you the only one.
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scootabot ONLINE (11/28/2013) [-] I don't see a problem here.
The man is clearly raising his hand to say that he will clean up the spilled milk.
The child is cheering the man on.
The other three are like, "Damn, that's a waste of good milk."
The man is clearly raising his hand to say that he will clean up the spilled milk.
The child is cheering the man on.
The other three are like, "Damn, that's a waste of good milk."
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blackstarshooter (11/28/2013) [-] You bronies only feel something like that, when you see a ****** cartoon pony being abused or being sad. And why? Because you are autistic and don't give a **** about people, but about fictional cartoon characters.
Better masturbate, while thinking of ponies. That's the peak of humanity, people: bronies.
Better masturbate, while thinking of ponies. That's the peak of humanity, people: bronies.
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scootabot ONLINE (11/28/2013) [-] Well. I'd imagine anyone else would feel hurt if things that they cared for were being harmed.
I'd rather not watch, but I know that my fictional characters are safe and sound. If not on my screen, then in my head.
Now, beyond that topic, saying that I don't care for others is a forgivable offense. Because, sometimes, I do only look out for me.
I try not to be an asshole, but sometimes it just slips out. I'm not perfect, I have my rotten days, everyone does.
I'm sure you're having one today, and for that I'm sorry; I do hope things get better for you.
Bronies aren't an issue, here. I know what it feels like to be abused. Hell, I'm abused by my step-father till this very day. I've been hurting since I was three. I'm nineteen now.
I don't stand up for myself because of the psychological trauma that my step-mother brought on. Before you judge, I'd like you to get to know the person -behind- the alias before blindly judging. Just like I'd hope you always do. It's what a person is meant to do.
I've stepped in when others are hurting, mate. I'm going to college to be a psychiatrist. I want to help those who were hurt. Not slander them.
I'd rather not watch, but I know that my fictional characters are safe and sound. If not on my screen, then in my head.
Now, beyond that topic, saying that I don't care for others is a forgivable offense. Because, sometimes, I do only look out for me.
I try not to be an asshole, but sometimes it just slips out. I'm not perfect, I have my rotten days, everyone does.
I'm sure you're having one today, and for that I'm sorry; I do hope things get better for you.
Bronies aren't an issue, here. I know what it feels like to be abused. Hell, I'm abused by my step-father till this very day. I've been hurting since I was three. I'm nineteen now.
I don't stand up for myself because of the psychological trauma that my step-mother brought on. Before you judge, I'd like you to get to know the person -behind- the alias before blindly judging. Just like I'd hope you always do. It's what a person is meant to do.
I've stepped in when others are hurting, mate. I'm going to college to be a psychiatrist. I want to help those who were hurt. Not slander them.
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blackstarshooter (11/28/2013) [-] Jesus, I didn't know that. Dude, I'm so sorry, I didn't want to hurt you or something like that.
Dude, did I ******* asked for your lifestory? You want me to forgive and forget everyone on this planet because of your heart-warming story. Poor autist.
Dude, did I ******* asked for your lifestory? You want me to forgive and forget everyone on this planet because of your heart-warming story. Poor autist.
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shamusogrady (11/28/2013) [-] Yeah, made you feel something.
My alcoholic dad left when i was 4 and left me with my abusive step father at age 6.
He hit me all the time, but i guess it's okay to casually laugh it off and not "whine" about it..
My alcoholic dad left when i was 4 and left me with my abusive step father at age 6.
He hit me all the time, but i guess it's okay to casually laugh it off and not "whine" about it..
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ultimatebadass (11/28/2013) [-] I know plenty of people that break this cycle, tbh some of the most kind hearted people I have ever met were beaten as children, powerful picture but I don't really agree too much
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dmxking (11/27/2013) [-] I don't know... it just looks like a really badass game of musical chairs to me...
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slapchoppin (11/28/2013) [-] people aren't allowed to hit their kids anymore and look at this generation
we need to be able to give them a little smack to put some fear in em
we need to be able to give them a little smack to put some fear in em
